tries to get with you and cheat on his wife with you. and then starts talking about how hard his thing is. and as soon as you tell him u want him too, then he starts telilng u how bad he wants u but cannot do that to his family. what the heck?
2007-07-17 18:22:11 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My question to you is "what do you make of a woman that would do something like that?"
2007-07-17 18:31:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds to me like he is playing it up, so that you think he is a good guy making a hard decisions, instead of realizing he is a dirt bag that is cheating on his wife. He will play that role with you until he gets some. Then he will change over to I want to leave her but the time is not right. And you will be feeling used.
2007-07-18 01:45:15 · answer #2 · answered by yo_dre 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd steer well away from him. I mean, if he's going to cheat on his wife for you, then if you guys got together, he'd cheat on you too. And so many people's feelings are at stake here, not only yours, but his wife's, and children's (if he has any).
Seriously, i just wouldn't get involved before anyone gets seriously hurt.
2007-07-18 01:26:51 · answer #3 · answered by Maddy B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him. There is nothing good in an unfaithful man, just heartache for everyone. Get out of that situation as soon as possible.
If he doesn't leave you alone, threaten to tell his wife. That works 75% of the time.
2007-07-18 01:26:18 · answer #4 · answered by Shannon R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. This guy needs to sh-it or get off the pot. You don't need him.
I have seen this before. You must cut him off. It's one thing to cheat on your wife, but it's another thing to talk big, hot and dirty, and then wilt and fold at the last minute. This is a terrible character defect, one of the worst. You need someone who can at least commit to his indiscretion.
2007-07-18 01:29:16 · answer #5 · answered by teacup_trashy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to cheat, but when you told him you want him he freaked out because it might really happen, and that made him feel guilty.
Stay away from married guys, there's so many other guys out there that aren't taken. It's not worth the drama and heartache that inevitably happens.
2007-07-18 01:28:06 · answer #6 · answered by In_Bloom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy wants u to beg for him so that he will not be blamed for not be responsible to u if anything goes wrong. not because he feel guilty for his wife. trust me! he will treat u the same way later.....after he gets what he wants, he will leave u and u cannot blame him because he will said its u who wants him. before u get into troubles, better leave this guy.....maybe u'll find it hard to do so because u want him too, so do it slowly. maybe u can start by not answering his phone calls and try not to meet him alone.
2007-07-18 01:49:34 · answer #7 · answered by uneng_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just wants what he cant have
and hes turning you on and then telling you he cant
dont do it you could ruin his relationship with his wife and one night will not make a difference in your life
2007-07-18 01:26:18 · answer #8 · answered by Sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lucky for you, he backed out. Those things always cause repercussions.
2007-07-18 01:26:09 · answer #9 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run away that guy is bad news bears
2007-07-18 01:25:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋