How can u make them aware of what they did was wrong?
I know with me if I do something terribly wrong it eats me up inside.But with my ex boyfriend he lies and is a manipulator.I dont understand how he can be that way!
2007-07-17 17:55:49 · 8 answers · asked by Sarah 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Some people have more of a conscience than others, but the manipulators who seem to get their way and feel superior, just don't show much remorse for what they do, even if they know they're wrong and hurt others. The heck of it is, they get away with it. You don't need people like that in your life, and since you refer to him as your "ex", you've made a smart move by moving on. Keep looking around, and you'll eventually find someone who shares your values and your dreams. Good luck, dear.
2007-07-17 18:08:04 · answer #1 · answered by gldjns 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has different personalitlies, some don't feel the same amount of guilt like other people do. If he is your ex bf, you should keep him as a ex, which means past bf. I don't know the story, however if you believe what you want to believe, then you have already made your answer, you just have to learn to move on and let go of your ex. This is why it is eating you up inside. I believe that you want him to change, but if he doesn't want to change, then you can only control yourself. right. So just move on and find a better future for yourself. There are good guys out there, you just have to wait when it comes to you. Sometimes girls take these good guys for granted because they go for the bad guys or cool guys. But the good guys are the ones that is understanding and will change their bad habits for the person the love. However, bad guys and good guys don't exist because everybody is different, i'm just talking in girls term.
2007-07-18 03:29:07 · answer #2 · answered by J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is true! There are some people that have no conscious. These folks have what is know as an antisocial personality disorder. People with this disorder are also referred to as psychopath or a sociopath. The odds are remote that your boyfriend has this disorder. People with this disorder have no empathy toward others, con, cheat and swindle. They look for opportunities to play games. They feel their own pain and sometimes have empathy for their children, because they see their kids as extensions of themselves. This is the person that could kill a human being and have dinner, drinks and go dancing afterward. They would say the person they killed "had it coming!" No guilt, no shame, just another day at the office!
2007-07-18 01:12:28 · answer #3 · answered by Thomas L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are some people without a conscience. People without a conscious are dead. There is a difference, however small.
You are eaten up inside after wrongdoing because you have a conscience, and are normal. He is probably a sociopath to get something out of you (and others). A lot of guys are like that, and it sucks. Especially when you want to go out with a babe who's recently been burned by one of these punks.
Whatever he does that you don't like, let him know about it, and that you mean business. He will likely be intimidated and will then leave you alone. . . .
2007-07-18 01:10:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe everyone has a conscious however I also believe people can learn to suppress certain emotions.
You are going to have to make some hard choices regarding your relationship. I've heard some people say they've had a positive effect on other people and we're able to change them. I'm not built that way-I will help those who want help but if someone wants to do battle with me rather than improving then I'm on my way down the road.
2007-07-18 01:12:02 · answer #5 · answered by Owl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are not aware of how the things they do or say can affect others. He may not have been taught or hes an ignorant dipsh*t. If you got a man who lies to you and try's to manipulate you why would you want to stay with him? There are better out there............go find someone who treats you better.
2007-07-18 01:06:01 · answer #6 · answered by Greg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are people out there not having the slightest sign of a conscious. Even if you confront them, they will not see the light, because they don't know better. Don't try it is a waste of time. Better use this time and help a needed.
2007-07-18 01:05:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has conscience, but listening to it and learning from your mistakes makes you better than others. Move on, forget your ex. If he can't see the error of his ways, then no one can make him.
2007-07-18 01:02:57 · answer #8 · answered by pixie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋