i am 5 weeks pregnant and im gonna have an abortion. but the guy that got me pregnant wont even talk to me in person i havent seen him in like 4 weeks. i asked if we could talk in person and he said that there was nothing to talk about i was pregnant and having an abortion end of story. i dono what to do cuase i know im having an abortion but its gonna be hard and i need him here for me. can you guys give me any advise on what i should do.
2007-07-17 17:34:30 · 11 answers · asked by rachel 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
DO NOT HAVE AN ABORTION!!!!
I got 3 thumbsdown immediately after suggesting not to get an abortion. I never guessed how low morals have become. I am ok for 100 or more thumbs down.
2007-07-17 17:42:33 · answer #1 · answered by boyplakwatsa.com 7 · 2⤊ 3⤋
You need to tell him that he fathered this baby and that you absolutely need him in a time like this. You need to explain to him why you're having an abortion and why you need him there for support. It's going to be hard. Best of luck to you sweetie. No matter what don't listen to people criticizing you for getting an abortion. Yes, you need to be absolutely sure about it but don't let others get you scared.
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2007-07-18 00:41:39 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need him there, he's obviously not supportive and will just make things worse. Forget about him, he's a pig. If you want someone with you, get a friend or understanding family member to go with you. And be sure to be careful next time so you don't end up in the same situation again. Once is an accident, letting it happen again is careless.
2007-07-18 00:43:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not really sure what his problem is. Is he mad that you're having an abortion? If he is, I can understand why. Adoption is always a better choice in my mind. But just let him know that you need him to there for you, and if he won't then you know you need to find somebody better, when you're ready of course.
2007-07-18 00:40:34 · answer #4 · answered by IndiHippi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this point in time it no longer matters what got you into this position. You have a child growing inside of you and you are a mother-to-be. Your focus should not be on the loser who won't take his share of the responsibility, but rather you need to be centered on taking care of yourself for your growing child's sake. I understand you feel abortion is your best option at this point, and I am sure you feel very alone in your choice, especially if you do not have the support from your baby's father, or from others who love you, but I truly suggest you consider keeping your baby and choose to love him or her. No matter the circumstances leading to your pregnancy, please do not choose to end the life of your growing child. He or she will be a blessing in your life, and I pray you will have the support of your family, as your child will be a blessing to them also. Please, always choose to love.
2007-07-18 11:27:05 · answer #5 · answered by souldoctor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please do not have an abortion u r goin 2 take your childs life u will never no how your pregnacy was with your child and when u do it u will realize that it was the worst mistake of your life so if i was u i wouldnt do it ,mayb the boy that got u pregnant doesnt want u 2 have an abortion either jus amagine holding your baby in your arms after birth and he/she being the sweetest little thing ever PLEASE DO NOT MAKE THE BIGGEST MISTAKE OF YOUR LIFE IT WILL HAUNT U 4EVER KEEP YOUR BABY!
2007-07-18 01:08:18 · answer #6 · answered by Kiki 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him that if he was a real man he could accept the fact that your pregnet plus the sooner he helps you and supports you the sooner it'll be over time always flys when you have love and support
2007-07-18 00:39:19 · answer #7 · answered by softballchicklet16 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why would you want this asshole there, he doesnt even acknowledge you, get over his ***, have the abortion and learn to wait for marriage to have sex or use birth control
2007-07-18 00:51:14 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAVE THE BABY AND PUT IT UP FOR ADOPTION AT LEAST LET IT HAVE A LIFE OK I HATE ABORTO=IONA AND I DONT KNOW WHAY THEY STILL DO IT
ABORTION=HORRIBLE IDEA
2007-07-18 03:42:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just don't have the abortion......by having an abortion you killing a human life, and it puts you at risk for infertility...as for the guy what did you expect.....what guy would wanna see his child killed???
2007-07-18 00:57:12 · answer #10 · answered by regiscoulterh 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋