i have. i dated a guy that drank and smoked weed EVERYDAY. and he always treated me like $hit. then one day he hit me so many times, beat me and left black bruises and open wounds. please feel free to share your story. i want to feel like im not the only one here
2007-07-17 16:24:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
yep, my last girlfriend wasn't physically abusive, but mentally, emotionally, and verbally. i'm still pretty damaged and it's been a little over a year.
2007-07-17 16:30:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mental abuse from ex bf... the constant yelling to get his own way, saying that your not good enough, you dont count, your useless. That nobody else is gunna want you, yet you are the one who works and goes to college at the same time and he sits home and cries cuz he cant get a job. And then you get weasled out of most of your money to support him or what he wants to do... He gets the great idea to screw your friend.. and then claim it was all a miscommunication... and then hes surprised... no shocked! when you walk away. It got to the point where i came to the conclusion i would rather be alone for the rest of my life then to put up with his cr*p, comments, negivitity for another minute.
2007-07-17 16:33:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh you are not the only one here! My ex drank a lot! He would yell and scream my poor kids spent more time in their room then they should have. One night he threatened to put our oldest to bed by her hair and lunged at her! I was there to stop it but he crossed a line with me that was forbidden in my eyes to ever cross! I filed for divorce......He did not respond I got my divorce through a default judgment..... And received everything I asked for including AA for him and Anger Management Plus supervised visits to the children while he completes treatment. To this day it has not been done and he does not see the children.....His decision. He misses out on some great kids I can tell you that.
2007-07-17 16:32:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not the only one here.
I put up with 4 1/2 years of verbal abuse. It ended with one time of physical abuse.
I left him.
Luckily, I had a place to go, and no children. So I never have to see him again.
PLEASE learn from this. You deserve better. DON'T get into another relationship like this one. That happens too many times.
Give yourself some time off before dating again.
Message me for support. Please/
2007-07-17 16:31:28 · answer #4 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, when I was 16. I dated this guy, my first real boyfriend. I thought he was so awesome until we started dating. He was jealous, abusive and scary. He choked me, threw me up against a wall, pinched me you name it. I was scared of him. One time at school he got upset with me and one of my other male friends saw him get abusive with me and approached me later to ask what I was doing. He was hurting me and he didn't want to see that. I found out that he was cheating on me after a year and that ended it.
But what is really weird, at our 10 year class reunion, he came up to me a apologized for everything he ever did. Unbelievable. I had always wondered if he ever realized what he had done. After that I finally had the closure I needed.
2007-07-18 02:26:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My situation was much like yours. The same thing happened to me one time, and I left. That is why I do not understand why so many want pot legalized. I do not feel it should be. He couldn't keep a job and would steal from me to support his addiction. That was the reason why I got the beating. He was trying to take the rent money, and I wouldn't let him.
2007-07-17 16:29:02 · answer #6 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My first husband did all the above till I had enough, I started working out with free weights and beat the $sh7 out of him and then left and filed for divorce. You aren't the only one and if you stay in the relationship you'll never be the only one. I hope for your sake you'll get out before he kills you. Try taking some martial arts classes, he'll leave you alone then I bet. They don't like getting hurt like they do inflicting the pain.
2007-07-17 16:28:40 · answer #7 · answered by sharpeilvr 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No I have never really been in a relationship at all at least not a dating relationship...and I apologize for this although I had nothing to do with it, just be glad you were able to open your eyes ahead of time and got away...
2007-07-17 17:01:47 · answer #8 · answered by Ablebaby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happen to me once and I got out of it right away. I've learnd that hurting people like to hurt other people they don't like them self and know nothing about love. They are mad at the world and its nothing you can do for them they need to seek help to deal with the pain inside them. Anyone who goes back into a relationship that is abusive is playing with fire. Get out while you can.
2007-07-17 16:43:51 · answer #9 · answered by gizmoe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not the only one here... I too was in an abusive relationship... physically but that has stopped and now it it mentally.... please feel free to contact me if you need to talk....
2007-07-17 16:29:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋