so lately i have been doubting my orentation (sorry my spelling is really bad). i like guys but then there is this whole i looked at a girl in a way i look at a guy am i bi or straight. any way to handle with it. i guess it comes with being a teen
2007-07-17 15:53:53 · 13 answers · asked by michelle w 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Of course it does, my dear one. You're a teenager and you have hormones that won't stop until you're somewhere's around 18. It's natural for your hormones to be fluxuating and today's Teens have the liberties we didn't to explore more of the bi, gay and lesbian attributes of themselves.What DOES matter is that you protect yourself if you are having sex. Always do that. Never count on someone else to do it for you. Protect yourself from dieases so we may have the pleasure of your company in ten years or so from now. We would *really* like to see you grow up healthy. Doubt away and experiment but please be safe.
2007-07-17 16:03:27 · answer #1 · answered by Mama Otter 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
When you're a teen, it's natural to feel a little curious and occasionally weird about everything, sexual orientation included. Often you can feel very strong emotions about people you like, regardless of their gender---Sometimes very good friends of the same sex feel love for each other, and sometimes that love drifts into experimentation (happens to girls, happens to guys)---the thing to remember is that whatever you feel may have nothing to do with your orientation; it's just being human.
You'll know your orientation when you know it. In the meantime, relax and take the time to get to know the person you are.
2007-07-17 23:12:18 · answer #2 · answered by Palmerpath 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's natural to experience a wide variety of emotions and feelings (note those diverse feelings often stay with you even as an adult.)
Don't sweat trying to find an answer now. Live your life to its fullest every day. At some point, your heart will tell you what your preference is and the direction you should follow.
2007-07-17 23:20:34 · answer #3 · answered by B 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For many, yes it does come with being a teenager. There are many that question their sexuality. Just keep an open mind and use some common sense. (As in if you like both don't pull that crap of "I'm attracted to both but I'm not sure if I'm bisexual.")
2007-07-18 00:02:43 · answer #4 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is 100 percent NORMAL to doubt your orientation as a teen. I went through it and so does everybody else. Bye!!!
2007-07-17 22:59:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I doubted mine for years and then finally faced it and really explored my feelings. It turns out I am definitely lesbian which isn't what I would have chosen, but it's a part of me that I can't change. At one point you just have to face yourself and really look deep inside to find who you truly are.
2007-07-17 23:00:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's perfectly normal. Hormones, especially for boys, and especially those connected with homosexuality are going wild and so they're giving your brain mixed messages. That combined with society and outside influences.
2007-07-17 23:00:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I feel the exact same way. I've spoken with a few of my friends about it. And they all said that it is too early to determine your sexuality. Give it time. One day you will accept and realize your sexuality.
2007-07-17 23:07:46 · answer #8 · answered by Adum 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
We all go through it....And what ever the case for you...remember you are a special person irregardless of your sexual orientation.
2007-07-17 22:59:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not only is it ok, but it's perfectly normal ^_^. Don't even worry about it!
2007-07-17 23:23:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋