What are your views on sex and marriage? Shouls you wait till marriage for sex or not?
Also.. this is weired but....... if you have had sex before, does your partner prefer hair "down there" or not?
Weired question i know, but im curious so thanks for your answers
2007-07-17 15:52:36 · 68 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
to late for me but i would respect a woman more probably if she did and why would anyone care about hair cause i don't.
2007-07-17 15:59:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
I'm thinking waiting is kinda good, kinda bad... But in the end i don't think it matters at all. What matters is if you are both truly in love and truly care about each others lives and well being and have a connection that is so much stronger than sex. What matters most - do you both care about each other enough to take care of your relationship for the long haul....Most people are too immature for that. That's why there is so much divorce. Not because the couple either had sex or no sex before marriage.
Most men prefer no hair down there. So, shave it. If you get bumps or rash - this may sound weird but putting a little Gold Bond body powder can take care of that problem.
2007-07-17 16:02:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why wait? It's one more reason for divorce. Sexual compatibility is strong element of a happy marriage. He may be too large, or too small, he may engage in behavior in bed you find distasteful or he may be too prudish, or he may simply take care of his own needs and not care about yours and what satisfies you. Do you really want to spend the next 30, 40 or 50 years that is done in 60 seconds and just leaves you there wondering what it's all about? Happens a lot.
That doesn't mean that you have to the other way and bed every guy you meet,
And shaved, definitely shaved, but again this is an issue of taste, some men like the "European" look, better talk about it.
2007-07-17 16:02:22 · answer #3 · answered by acydskull 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Religion is full of dumb man-made fear-based stories to control people into giving churches money, so don't wait till marriage because of something they tell you. I think if you wait, you'll always wonder what it would be like to be with someone else. And if your partner has been with someone else before you, it will drive you insain knowing that you waited and he didn't. An orgasm is the greatest feeling in the world and by far the best gift you could ever give or receive. Why would anyone put off something that powerful? That's just waisting time. Some people on here mentioned to wait till you're in love and I can see that for your first time at least. Your first time is on you'll never forget so it may as well be with someone you love.
As far as hair maintanance: MUST BE COMPLETELY SHAVED! There are multiple reasons for this. Cleaner - less odor - looks sexier - for guys, it feels like you can get more inside during intercourse - makes your clit more available for direct contact from tongue, vibrator, etc. thus inhancing your pleasure.
2007-07-17 16:30:15 · answer #4 · answered by chayes6446 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
There is no reason to be married before you have sex. The two things have nothing to do with each other. What you should take into consideration before having sex is whether or not your partner respects you as A person and the health of you and your partner (ex: STDs). Remember sex is an intimate physical act and marriage is A flawed institution.
2007-07-17 16:05:08 · answer #5 · answered by Frankie 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
First question... I did not wait, and I regret it. I wish my wedding night had been just about the two of us. I wish I had given that only to my husband. But instead, we both know that the other has shared that intimate part of themselves with someone else.
Second question... I've had 6 partners total. Two of them specifically asked me to get rid of ALL the hair "down there". One guy said he liked natural growth because hairless women look like "little girls" to him. And the other three never said anything about it (I was natural). The only person I ever waxed or shaved for was my husband. I recommend you do what is most comfortable for you. If he really loves you, it won't be that important. But if you don't mind, and he prefers one way or the other... then go for it!
2007-07-17 15:58:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
The concept of waiting for sex until after marriage is very outdated. That's not saying you should bang everyone around you but if I married the first person I had sex with, I'd be spending the rest of my life having really lousy sex. And no, he doesn't prefer hair down there.
2007-07-17 15:56:31 · answer #7 · answered by neve_freak2001 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I'm waiting till I find the right person, but not waiting till marriage. I could though. Sex means someting to me and so does my body, so I choose to wait for someone who won't cheapen the experiance for me.
2007-07-17 15:56:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Most people will tell you to wait, but most of those same people are the ones that didn't. Go with what feels right for you.
As for the hair thing, ask your partner what their preference is on that subject.
2007-07-17 15:57:09 · answer #9 · answered by golden sephiroth 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Honestly, it depends on the individual person lifestyle and their beliefs. Everybody is different and must decide what path they want to choose. Personally, I' am just waiting for the right guy and relationship that is right for me not marriage. As long as you respect yourself and the person you are with then it doesn't matter, to each their own.
2007-07-17 15:58:50 · answer #10 · answered by ♥♥Bree♥♥ 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Well I knew that I probably wouldn't be able to save myself till married, so I at least tried till I was eighteen, couldn't do that either, the D day was when I was 16, but I did try to have some morals, but I guess I just through them out the window. Oh well. Yeah my husband likes it shaved, so do I, I can't stand it hairy....... If you don't want to shave it you can always keep it short and trimmed. Hope this helps out.
2007-07-17 15:58:40 · answer #11 · answered by bekapv_219 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋