once i MEET my SOULMATE, is it going to be FOREVER?

Question

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a thoughtful question out of wishful thinking...

Answer 1

If they are your soulmate, then it will never fade, just as the soul never fades.

Answer 2

You are allowed more than one, of either sex, Enki. Don't despair. I reckon we always find what we need, if we've the courage for it, for better or pain. And if any or all are not forever, consider -- forever is a hell of a long time. And a limited library could be boring and uneducational - on either side. And every soulmate prepares you for the next. And a rolling stone CAN gather moss. And we learn through all relationships so you could say they make our "soul" grow to accommodate either a growing relationship, or a new bigger one, with more lessons to teach. And a door opens both ways and is big enough for two. And all the rest of the happy thoughts that can keep you going from one grand adventure to the next for as long as you've got legs and can get to your feet, and walk. I know. I've been there - but the First Mate (or last, actually), with whom I'm perfectly content, tells me I should have wandered more widely. For the benefit of others, she says, as well as my own. Which shows what soulmates we are, and why I am so content. So gather rosebuds while ye may. Every one of them has much to teach and the perfumary beats compost.

Answer 3

I think that a relationship needs to be nurtured on a daily basis. Being a soulmate to me means we share the same basic values, beginning with a spiritual commonality. If you have that then your basic foundation should be based on loving one another without reciprocity by both partners. Forever is one day at a time while sustaining good relations, not taking one another for granted on a daily basis, always having open and free communications, and having the ability to be a good listener, and remaining faithful to your partner. I am very confident in my abilities to love in a mature fashion, which means how to do all the above to maintain a relationship that would last forever. What you can't handle should be taken to mutual prayer because arrogance has no place in a relationship, only equal values, equal responsibilities, and open communications skills backed up by mutual respect, humility, and trust.

Answer 4

First, you need to define what a "soulmate" means to you. Being able to figure out how it shapes, then you can tell if really you've met your soulmate. Still, however you think you share the same bunches of stuff and idea, there's always these individual differences which may argumentally pop up along your relationship...In someway, a soulmate who is as imperfect as anyone else may end up estranged...Or with some luck, still be sticking with you for as long as you know each other...and it's because he or she hasn't TOTALLY the same perspectives as you do.
Forever or not, finding a soulmate is WORTHY enough!

Answer 5

your soulmate, eh?

well, let's assume that you know your soulmate when you meet him/her. and let's assume that he/she recognizes you likewise.

do everything in your ability to make the other person happy. if the other person does the same for you, you can both stay true to yourselves and each other, which i think is all you need.

now forever, forever is an interesting idea. interesting because even if you were an atheist, and you stayed with your love to the end of your days...well, it might as well be forever, right? is that what you're asking?

hm, good luck anyway! :)

Answer 6

If you meet your soul mate, it will be forever, regardless of anything. Even death. Couple of things here that are important. A soul mate isn't a myth; only those who have never met theirs, deny its validity. Nor does a soul mate always mean romantically, (although usually). For those who deny, the illogical argument can be: "Well, YOU think it's your soul mate, but do THEY?!" Both of you KNOW, or you wouldn't BE soul mates! I wasn't even looking or wishing. We were so connected, we didn't even have to speak; we had no "adversities" to overcome. When you meet your soul mate, (& I believe you will!) it will be forever. It is for me. Whomever wants to scoff is welcome. I "might" have at one time, if anyone had suggested it. But now I KNOW. Forever will be in your heart. Not even death separates the connection.

Wow. Yet again, shahbarak's wisdom. He is right. We aren't limited to ONE soulmate.

Answer 7

It could be...

but what if you don't?

What if one doesn't exist?

What if the concept is untrue?

Then where are you?

We are here for the purpose of enjoying this creation, with all of its joys and sorrows, ups and downs. All of its beauty and chaos.

It may take some effort, but maybe, if you recognize the creator in yourself, a soulmate can be discovered where there wasn't one.

Answer 8

When you meet your soulmate you are going to know that it is them. as for forever?, we all die so there is no forever. It will last a long time and it will be a great ride. so enjoy!!

Answer 9

This a funny question because I know that my husband and I are soul mates and we are going to be forever. The reason it's funny to me is because my husband and I have learned from the mistakes our past relationships have taught us - not only about what we want & don't want in a partner but what we've learned within each other. What I mean is, we've had things done to us as a part of those relationships we never thought no one could ever do to us but they did them anyway - like infidelity. Once we spoke to each other about our past histories, we became more honest of how we felt and how we wanted each other to treat us (like him to treat me & me to treat him). We've all learned about ourself whether we like it or not, when a past partner or a new one comes into our life complaining about the way we bring a situation to light. Well, that's the kind of discussions we held with each other; bringing up each other's faults and talking them out about how we can improve them to better ourselves. Once we knew what the problem was, we were able to correct ourselves for each other and grow to be better people for each other. That being said, if you learn your lessons from everyone around you and from those you let into your life, you'll be able to be with your Soul Mate FOREVER.

Answer 10

You asked that once you meet your soul mate is it going to be forever? There is another way that it could not be true, maybe for you, it is but, with the person, you fell in Love with, does share the same feelings as you do, than I think it is going to be forever. But, if that person is only infatuated with you, and does not see things as you do, than it will not last Forever.

Answer 11

I'd hope so because if they're really your soul mate, its like they're a piece of your very own soul. If you two part, both of you will be losing a piece of yourself and both of you would suffer. You wouldn't be able to take it and you would have to stay together to feel complete so I'd say it would last forever.