Should I dorm near my friends or not?

Question

here's the deal. My ex roomates have decided to dorm together. I feel wierd about it, if only because I spent freshman year with one and then sophomore year with the other, and now my junior year they are both rooming. I dont really know if we get along that well, but we are polite.

I left my university and when I came back I was told I may not get housing. Now a space is available and I'm wondering if I should bother to live close to these two. ONE of them has a major social network and alot of my first's ( first party, first holloween, first random night out, social excursions, etc) was with this girl (and some of her friends). Im thankful.

I also have other friends who live on the campus and who know me and treat me nicely. Sadly, our lives take diffrent turns but when I am around them I feel diffrent, it's more than just being polite, I feel connected.

I can choose. Should I live near the ex-roomie's or my other friends?

thanks!

Answer 1

I'd say stay with your friends, rather than your ex-roomates.

Answer 2

take a chance and move off campus. TRUST ME...its cheaper, you'll have tons more fun. and if your worried about friends, if you dont have a job get one and you'll have a new gang in no time. i lived in the dorms my first year and i hated the second with a passion. i wish i had moved off campus that year. but when i finally did i had the time of my life.

Answer 3

People change, sure you had a lot of first with them but you cannot be expected to follow them around for the rest of your life. You older wiser and in a different circle now. Just move on.

Answer 4

if it were me I would room with someone who I wouldn't have to worry about wanting to hang out with too much so that I could focus on my studies.

Answer 5

Yes go with your friends.

Answer 6

Stick with your friends.