So I have a best friend and we are like the real version of Will and Grace. We talk everyday, solve each others problems, spend almost all the time with each other and have grown really close, to the fact they we get jealous when the other is in a relationship. I am in a new relationship and I think she feels neglected and makes comments that confirm this. I really hate that she feels that way and I can't complain because I feel the same way when she dates. My boyfriend thinks that she had a crush on me and that she can't stand seeing me with him. I just don't know what to do, I set days aside to spend with her and it's great but then I leave to go to my boyfriend's and I get the sad look. Any suggestions?
2007-07-17 09:17:34 · 3 answers · asked by bguyny17 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Have a Karen like friend throw a big party get everyone drunk and loaded and have them battle it out. Once it's out of their system they will be friends.
2007-07-17 09:36:04 · answer #1 · answered by TRACER ™ 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need someone like the Jack character to keep her occupied.
Your bf may have a point with her having a crush on you. She certainly is dependent on your friendship/relationship (and vie versa).
At some point each of you is going to have to realize that close friends or not, you will have to begin to live your own lives.
2007-07-17 09:26:25 · answer #2 · answered by nycguy10002 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need to be open and honest with both of them. Tell her she is your best friend and you will spend time with her but you have a boyfriend you have a life to share with. Tell him he has nothing to worry about in her because there is no attraction you are just best friends.
2007-07-17 09:38:59 · answer #3 · answered by startrektosnewenterpriselovethem 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋