1. Always look stylish & clean
2. When you find a girl u like and you r shy try to get her to notice you. Eye her down or kinda roam around her alot.
3. Its always good to try to make a girl laugh.
4. 85% of the time the girl is dressed to how she acts, use that to get her.
5. When makin small talk compliment her.She will love it or hate it.
6. First impressions r the most important.Dont mess that up.
7. If you rather give da number out than get it. Come up wit it quick like writing it down ealier.
8. Try not to use real big words that she might not understand. That aint ballin
9. Wear Ballin/Stylish/NameBrand clothes in big public places if u expecting to get looked at.Havin friends around is better too if your shy.
10.If you want da direct approach walk up to her & introduce yourself.If she mean/shy/perky work with that and get that number.
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2007-07-17 08:13:06 · 16 answers · asked by Nicholais S 6 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Dont forget, 80% of what you say is body language, and 10% is tone, so 90% isnt coming out of your mouth.
2007-07-17 08:26:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
No offense, but if guys want tips for getting girls, they shouldn't be listening to another guy. I agree with some of your tips, but you're not giving girls enough credit. I'm not going to say that most girls are smarter than guys (more often than not it's true but it really just depends on the girl and the guy) but that's kind of offending. You have too many references to superficial things as well. Any girl who is really worth going out with isn't going to care as much about your looks if you're being a total jerk to her. I don't think you should have the number written down either.
If any guys reading this really want to get a girl, they need to be themselves. Build a good friendship with her before ever just asking her out. Get passed that embarrassing stage of dating where you're just trying to impress her by being her friend first. Girls do like to laugh, but don't act like an idiot just to make her laugh. Be real. Girls don't always dress how they act. I wear a lot of old basketball shirts, but I'm not a big fan of basketball any more. Some girls like compliments, but not all girls. Don't make it obvious that you're trying to flatter her. That makes girls really uncomfortable. (Unless they're vain... they probably aren't worth it if they are) Name brands aren't very important, just don't look like a slob. Friends can be useful while getting to know a girl. I would never go to a movie alone with a guy I'd just met. (I'm still not very comfortable going to the movies alone with a guy I've known for three years)
One more thing, don't ever use the word "ballin" around a girl unless she's a basketball player and your talking about a game.
2007-07-17 13:02:00 · answer #2 · answered by hyperactress23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number 8 is rather rude, to be honest. I took a test a few months ago and my English is above average, plus I scored a 98.6% on my literacy test when I was in grade 10 a few years ago.
Number 9 is rather shallow; well, I don't know if shallow is the proper term to use in this case, but, I used that word due to the lack of another word.
But other than that, the rest is all good!
2007-07-17 09:51:42 · answer #3 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not bad, but for all the girls i have tried to get at, exclude # 8 and #2 cause some girls don't go for that. #9 can be positive or negative, because if a shy person is with a group of friends in most cases they tend to ask the non shy friend (i.e. - me) to talk to the girl for them. And for me, if I'm in full mack mode then by the time i convince the girl to come kick it with my friend, she is more interested in trying to get at me instead of my boy. So Exclude 9 cause its too risky.
2007-07-17 09:47:03 · answer #4 · answered by ♫♪2 kids+1 wife=magical♪♫ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats not bad for a guy. For number 8.... I kindof find that insulting because girls are tipically smarter than guys, unless you just like dumb girls. So don't talk to her like you think shes stupid. Even if you do. And for number 9, it is good to have friends around you if you are shy but not a ton of friends. If you have to have friends around you always you need to stand out. Or have only 2-3 other guys with you. If you are going to go talk to the girl don't take a friend with you. Even if she has a friend with her. It will probally be eaiser for her to talk to you and find out if she likes you or wants to give you her number if she doesn't associate you with other people.
Oh yea, and for number 2 don't eye her down. Look into her eyes. Otherwise she will think you are judging her by the way she looks. Which no girl likes.
2007-07-17 08:24:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
I wouldnt suggest writting a number down earlier becasue if you there having a convo and then you pull out a piece of paper with ur number on it seems like the only reason you are at the mall, park, where ever is to pick up girls.
2007-07-17 08:46:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but I wouldn't like a guy if he acted like that.
I mean, don't flatter her! And first impressons aren't the most important. And I find number 8 kind of insulting. And I don't care what kind of stylish namebrand clothes someone wears.
Thanks anyway, but that is not accurate.
2007-07-17 10:23:54 · answer #7 · answered by Lydia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea most of these are true except for number 8, thats really rude! in my case i usually use "big" words that the guy doesn't understand.
2007-07-17 09:40:34 · answer #8 · answered by Small♥Town♥Girl 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry dude, but #2 is what we call stalking. Remember guys, when talking to a girls, look at her eyes, not her chest!!!!
2007-07-17 11:19:12 · answer #9 · answered by Bryan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh you want to hear 10 tips on how NOT to get me...?
Reread what you posted.
2007-07-17 10:51:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋