this sounds a bit embarassing but i always feel the need to pleashure my self down below and i dont know what to do, i dont know that what im doing is write or wrong and could you help me? like give me some tips?
Many thank...
2007-07-17 07:23:42 · 27 answers · asked by skully088 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Hi dont be embarrased. Its perfectly ok to pleasure yourself.The best way is by rubbing your clitoris. Your clioris is located right at the top of your slit where the 2 sides meet under your belly button.Slide your finger between the lips and feel around at the back for a small lump. It should tingle when you touch it. lick your finger and rub the lump gently in a circular motion. You should start to get wet. Keep rubbing, next you will start to feel like you really need to pee. you DONT need to pee ,the feeling will pass keep rubbing. Next you may tense up ,or start to shake, its ok keep going. Now you will start to feel a feeling building up inside you ,its ok keep rubbing. try to hold the feeling in as long as possible then when you cant hold it any longer let it go. Good luck
2007-07-20 01:34:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming you're looking for advice and not permission to go ahead..........
Depends on what you like really don't it? Just press round with your hand til it feels right and you've got a good spot and away you go. Some girls like more pressure some more friction, some like it only on the outside some deeper in so try it different ways. As for sex toys - maybe you should get good with the fingers first then when you know what you like you can judge what kind of toy you might like.
As for getting a man to do it most really aren't sure and women can be very different so he's a fair chance of getting it totally wrong unless you're able to show him so if you're an expert he'll do it better for you!
2007-07-17 08:02:20 · answer #2 · answered by LRolly 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are indulging in self love making or female masturbation.
It is perfectly normal, just that you should be careful what you use for your pleasure. A lot of gadgets are available in the market. Dildos are considered best. Use the dildo in a way such that you get the best out of it.
One thing in particular, even men indulge in masturbation, and they are not embarassed why should you be? Any way, I feel that self indulgence is much better than sleeping with a man and getting some STD.
All the best.
2007-07-17 07:30:27 · answer #3 · answered by amembal4444 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with it, no need to be embarrassed. It's your body. Just be sure to have some privacy, relax and take your time, and be sure you're well-lubricated before putting anything inside of you. Sex is as much mental as physical, so feel free to indulge the most erotic daydream you can think of and don't let yourself feel guilty about it. Enjoy.
2007-07-17 10:33:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is perfectly perfectly normal!!! I promise!!! ALL men and women feel exactly the same way I promise you!!! Untill you feel comfortable enough to have a partner, just try and see what feels nice with your fingers, or try a shopping trip to Ann Summers? The main thing is not to be embarrassed.
2007-07-20 03:45:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, you are completely normal.
You're just discovering your body and sexuality - there's nothing wrong with what you're doing at all.
As long as you're not doing it in public or showing people for the sake of it it's fine.
As long as you do it in a private and comfortable environment, it's fine.
Enjoy yourself.
2007-07-22 12:32:45 · answer #6 · answered by xCassiEx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry - it's normal. If you want some tips, you need to google the word masturbation and see what comes up.
2007-07-23 03:35:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've just discovered this, then it's perfectly normal. You'll probably calm down on the urges after a while.
2007-07-19 08:27:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-04 00:43:42 · answer #9 · answered by raffone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, there's nothing wrong with that your just starting to explore the fun in sex having means of satisfying one's self... and what your body does when you do the real thing in the future.. have fun!!
2007-07-22 21:09:44 · answer #10 · answered by dianelane0811 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋