personally, for me - it has changed a lot. When i was little i always thought when you are in love with someone - it is PERFECT and you NEVER fight - and you have everything in common ... and bl abl abl abl ablaba! lol now i know its not always a fairy tale.
2007-07-17 06:05:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Mine was similar to yours. My perception was a fairytale. You lived happily ever after, and there was one person out there for me.
I don't believe there is "one" person. I think you can love more than one person in your lifetime.
And I know it is not a fairytale.It is A LOT of work. And heartache and joy and frustration, etc..
It took me longer than I wish it would of have, but it took me awhile to figure it out. Who knows in ten more years I may feel differently about it all.
2007-07-17 06:10:40 · answer #1 · answered by loladoreen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was a child, I loved my parents and I loved my family members. Some of them I didn't like much but my parents always told me you have to love family...Love the sinner hate the sin that kind of deal. Love=treating someone kindly, caring for someone, doing nice things for someone.
Now It's changed for me...because I have fallen in love several times...I now say that love means respecting someone and not forcing them to do anything they don't want to do, when you're in love you should feel safe and secure and be able to be your true self with that person without having to worry about them putting you down for being different. There are different kinds of love. 1.) Love for family members, 2.) Love for friends, 3.) Love for someone you want to marry some day and spend the rest of your life with. This is only part of my current definition but you get the idea.
2007-07-17 06:11:41 · answer #2 · answered by Lorraine_us 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm pretty much the same as you. I realized that it is not like it is in the movies... Love is something you have to work at... it doesn't just happen and isn't a fairy tale.
2007-07-17 06:09:30 · answer #3 · answered by Rand al' Thor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever single blame Fairy Tale is in a Book.
'member this an yo will not go a stray
I wuldn't steer yo wrong
2007-07-17 06:08:46 · answer #4 · answered by jsbjoe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, mine has greatly. My perception of love has changed in the last few years because I had a child. I think as you grow older it will continue to change due to life experience.
2007-07-17 06:09:52 · answer #5 · answered by reggieg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel the same way that u do i always thought is was perfect no fights or cheating or anything but now i know different
2007-07-17 11:07:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
same here....i thought you just met some perfect person and lived happily ever after in a perfect house with kids and no worries...i realize now that love isn't perfect.....
2007-07-17 06:08:37 · answer #7 · answered by Ellen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
romantically yes
even family stuff changes when siblings grow up
2007-07-17 06:07:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know now that most who profess it know nothing about it. They only have an agenda.
2007-07-17 06:08:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tends to involve more nudity.
2007-07-17 06:11:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋