I am 16 now. I loved three, one of them is my current love. BUT I have loved two men, but not that strong. I am not Bi anyway. So, Who am I?
2007-07-17 02:52:40 · 11 answers · asked by Yulia Ivanova 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You are a young woman in her teens who is Bi (sorry, Dearest, but you are Bi.) If you have both male and female lovers then you are bisexual. As you get older, you might find a trend towards lesbianism or towards heterosexuality or you may stay bisexual. Only YOU will know that. We can't tell you. You're going to have to choose that path for yourself, my child.
I'm going out on a TOS limb here and warning you : Don't go and email the older lady up there who invited you to do so. She's just trying to start something and it won't be worth it.
Blessing to you.
2007-07-17 03:42:54 · answer #1 · answered by Mama Otter 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you dont have to be a lesbien to love a women. It depends more upon sexual desires. There is nothing wrong with you either way. It just seems harder to be gay or lesbien because society makes it difficult. When I started dreaming about women, I thought there was something wrong with me, but other women who are not gay dream also. You are who you are. What ever you want to be. What ever you feel most comfortable being.
2007-07-17 10:28:27 · answer #2 · answered by pegasis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your too young to know who you are. your experimenting at the moment and find all sorts of sexual pleasures fun. Once you realise men=money, you will then stick with a male.so enjoy those women while you can,
2007-07-17 09:58:46 · answer #3 · answered by dirk o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trow the dang list of labels out the window.
2007-07-18 01:23:32 · answer #4 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are bi by definition. You like both as you say.
Noone can tell for sure except you. But if you like both you're bisexual by definition. To say you're not is just stupid.
2007-07-17 10:35:26 · answer #5 · answered by Luis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are HUMAN. At sixteen you are wayyyy to young to have to decide. As you get older you will become more comfortable in your own skin and understand yourself and your sexuality a little more.
2007-07-17 09:57:54 · answer #6 · answered by DEBBY'S BABY 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
3 women, 2 men, and you're 16. No, it doesn't mean that you're a lesbian. It does mean you're a bit of a tramp though.
2007-07-17 10:02:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Careful, dear! There are so many bitter, no-life lesbians here (see username "DEATH") that you're not likely to get anything but bad advice, abusive answers and misleading information. If you want to talk about this, please contact me via Yahoo! Messenger. You'll get honest, proper advice instead of bad language and abuse.
2007-07-17 10:13:06 · answer #8 · answered by 1954 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Who do you think you are?
Only you can answer that. There are no rules, no set definitions...only you can define who you are.
2007-07-17 09:57:05 · answer #9 · answered by DEATH 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
B*TCH GO TO SCHOOL...YOU ONLY 16 TALKING ABOUT STUFF LIKE THAT..
2007-07-17 12:20:30 · answer #10 · answered by mona75243 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋