OK so last year i wasn't exactly popular and im sick of not being popular. I wanna be like the girlz that where like gangster clothes so explain to me how to become like a ghetto popular grl. And also explain to me how to get a boyfriend.
2007-07-17 02:38:28 · 21 answers · asked by sweetiepii321 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Maybe you shouldn't look for a cheap fix to the problem, and stop trying to act bad and desperate? Think about the kind of guy that likes trashy girls? Is that the kind of boyfriend you want? Maybe try femininity and honesty, that might get you a guy that treats you with respect and loyalty.
2007-07-17 02:40:35 · answer #1 · answered by Steve C 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
seriously - just be yourself. It's a cliche but it's true. People will like you if you are confident and be yourself. Don't try to be anything because then you'll be worrying about it. it's like the Chinese finger puzzle - the harder to pull the more stuck your fingers are. If the girls in your school where ghetto clothes, I guess you could start wearing those close too. BUT NEVER do anything you're not comfortable with, just to be popular. Don't drink, do drugs, have sex, skip school, etc. just because you think you need to do that to be popular.
True popularity comes from an honest and friendly character.
2007-07-17 09:43:21 · answer #2 · answered by jane j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL..oh honey.
You don't want to be one of those ghetto fabulous people. It's not feminine. Boys like girls that are girls. Don't get involved in all that gang crap. It's really not a good lifestyle choice. You could end up in jail just being around them when they do something stupid. Don't waste your youth on that BS.
I would just look pretty. Make sure your hair is cute every day, wear some makeup so that your facial features are accented. If you're overweight, try and get healthy.
Try not to care about what people think too much. It shows when you do, and it's not really worth it.
2007-07-17 09:42:50 · answer #3 · answered by dahlia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you wanna be somebody your not? Be yourself, and you'll be grateful you did when you get older. If you try and fake being somebody your not, people will read into that and probably not wanna talk to you more because of that. Honesty and personal integrity are your best options.
You didn't say how old you were either. Maybe you'll grow into a wonderful person and boys will just flock to you. Be strong, hold your ground, and don't take any B S from anybody. You'll respect yourself more as you get older.
2007-07-17 09:43:57 · answer #4 · answered by Junior 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being cool is not the same as studying the courses and then graduating and then getting scholarships.......Being cool never got you anywhere, so leave them alone and look out for yourself and be popular in the academic world, something that matters, something that will get you somewhere instead of pregnant with some 'gangstas' kid and living in a hovel somewhere......
Some day you will own that hovel and they will pay you to live there, how 'cool' is it now, that you can up there rent for five dollars a year, since you are the one with the degree in your hand.......????
2007-07-17 09:44:17 · answer #5 · answered by kaliroadrager 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time on that crap! Most of the "popular" kids I went to school with are now nobodies with dead end jobs and boring lives! If you have one or two good friends to hang out with you are doing good. Be yourself and you won't get "caught" being a poser.
2007-07-17 09:49:20 · answer #6 · answered by sbyldy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok so this is what happened to me! So, anyways first of all just get those kinda clothes you like and make friends w/ one of them just dont change yourself! B/c well that just ruins everything between other friends you have! Well first off just get those clothes you like as i already said and be sure to only make friends w/ one of them and then she will introduce you to her other friends that are popular and do things he/she likes to do and hang out w/ them! Maybe just act how they act for a while as long as it doesnt change you dramatically! If you have any more questions just e-mail me! k_stuberg02@yahoo.com well I hope to talk to you l8r bye!
2007-07-17 09:45:04 · answer #7 · answered by Kennady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to have confidence, i can hear it as i read your statement that you have no confidence!!! that is the only thing that will make you what you want to be! you know what the "cool" clothes are to wear, and the "cool" hair styles! so be daring, just do it! dont worry about what other people are thinking or saying behind your back! b/c if they are talking behind your back, either they are just jealous or they are just plain mean, and dont deserve any respect anyways!
guys will like you when you like yourself!!!
school is miserable and kids are ruthless, dont give into them!!! be strong and keep your head held high!!
good luck
2007-07-17 09:56:38 · answer #8 · answered by UGHwhatever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can practice a sport for exemple to meet some people and you could buy some news clothes for example, to have a positive attitude, to smile, to be the best friend of a lot of boys. I dont' know, may be more, but I think you have to stay yourself.
ps : exc me, I'm french and my english is not perfect.
2007-07-17 09:44:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i could say I'm not un popular but i kinda have a lot of friends
but anyways they key to become popular is to be
always nice
have nice clothes
always make friends and
you will be popular
always make people like u
hope this helps =]
Kaylea<333
2007-07-17 09:47:30 · answer #10 · answered by 소라 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋