Met a guy while on vacation, exchanged numbers, called each other a few times. He sounded very interested and flirted with me. Now I am trying to get him to visit me for a weekend to get to know him. He tells me he will see what he can do, then the next time he calls I asked if he is coming to see me and he doesn't even remember the weekend I asked him to come. I told him if he doesn't care to meet me then don't bother calling, cuz he is a stranger to me. He asked me if I was ending this relationship, I said RELATIONSHIP?? there isn't one, I don't even know you. He told me he would see what he can do and he would call me back tomorrow (which was Saturday) its Tuesday - no call! It really makes me angry. He is a grown man just be honest. But don't be a tease on the telephone. Its obvious he was just playing with me. I hate to be rude to him, I am just not that way. Whats something "CIVIL" but blunt that I can say to him if he calls again?
2007-07-17 01:43:24 · 10 answers · asked by Maria 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
At this point why do you care....you met him on vacation, that already tells you it was just a flirtation.
When he calls again....don't answer the phone and then get on with your life.
You don't know him....he's not worth thinking about.
2007-07-17 01:54:15 · answer #1 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's definately playing a game with you! He never intended on getting into any kind of relationship with you, if was fun to meet a mysterious girl when on vacation but more than likely he's married or already in a relationship. Don't worry about him you never knew him to begin with. Be as rude or blunt as you need to be, after all you have nothing to lose at this point.
2007-07-17 02:32:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you feel the need to be civil to him? Go with just being blunt!
Just tell him that you are no longer interested in seeing him.
2007-07-17 01:48:02 · answer #3 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's full of crap and you should put his number on your 'do not call list' and forget about him, he can't be that great being the jerk that he is......he's a LOSER,
say: Later Days Bastard!! and just lose his number. good luck
2007-07-17 01:54:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not interested in you-- at least not as much as you are in him.
Time to forget about him and move on.....
2007-07-17 01:53:12 · answer #5 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously he is playing with ur emotions.. forget abt him and give him a good piece when he tries to get back with u...
2007-07-17 01:50:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is married. Forget him.
2007-07-17 01:52:29 · answer #7 · answered by wondering 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like he is married. Tell him something like "Please put this number on your "Do not call" list".
2007-07-17 01:49:30 · answer #8 · answered by OC 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is full of it. Ignore him.
2007-07-17 06:07:28 · answer #9 · answered by Topsail 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just not into you. Simple as that.
2007-07-17 02:03:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋