My daughter has had a fight with a best friend, but the friend won't tell my daughter what she said or did.

Question

Her friend won't give the reason why she is mad at her and it is really bothering my daughter. She has send her an email and asked her why or what she may have said that mad her mad, but the friend won't tell her the reason. Who is being childish here

Answer 1

I would not worry about it. Kids do that all of the time. They will eventually resolve it unless it is serious, which I doubt.

Answer 2

Well, you can look at it one of two ways.

Your daughter isn't telling you the full story, just because you're her mom, although this doesn't seem true because you are involved in her life (knowing about her e-mail and the situation).

How old is your daughter? I'm a sixteen year old girl, and from elementary school to about 8th grade things like this happened all the time. Girls are vindictive and create drama just to create drama. I can assure you, this is not the last time your daughter will have a problem with one of her friends for a stupid reason, or for no reason at all.

It generally stops once you hit high school. Kids stop caring so much about hurting one another, and focus on growing up and becoming their own person. That's when people meet the best friends they'll have for many years to come, etc.

To answer your question, it appears as though your daughter is just being curious, and her friend is the childish one. If your daughter did something, how does she expect her to fix it if she doesn't tell her what she did in the first place? And if she doesn't want her to fix it, she's a drama queen. .Either way, the friend is the childish one.

Answer 3

The friend is being more childish she should tell your daughter the problem. But your daughter needs to stop writing emails asking her friends why she is upset your daughter should just apologize. The friend may be upset for something little that your daughter did without realizing or she may be upset because something may be happening to her at home or with someone else. Your daughter should just apologize as a mother you should know that people should always take the high road.

Answer 4

the friend. if she was a true friend she would tell your daughter the reason and try to solve it with her if not she should move on to someone else ive had that problem with lots of people before but its there loss of a friend and your gain of accomplishment and confidence =]

Answer 5

your daughters friend is jelouse of your daughter because the boy that likes your daughter is the boy your daughters friend likes,