Future? Very worried!!!!!!?

Question

I am Krishnan V. aged 19 years DOB 04.02.1988 at 1105 hours in Cochin, Kerala State, India, currently into by Second Year UG Degree in Commerce Stream..

Of late, the situation of my father is so worrisome that he had to virtually beg..in my presence to one of our relatives to remit the fees at my College which was not the case until some years back. I was very much upset on that particular incident...When checked with him, he said he had helped such relatives and also several friends a lot when he was comfortable, however, the current situation is entirely different....penniless..even struggling to
meet the home expenses.....Again in September/October, the remaining part of the annual fees has to be paid and I do not know what he would do....he was in business which had to be closed down due to loss and now without any income......What and where the problem lies? What about my future? Will I be able to complete B.Com course and whether I would be able to go in for futher studies

Answer 1

Things are tough...I understand completely what you are going through.
[I'm in college with fees, plus have bills, my mother is kicking my stepdad out for cheating yet again so there is no income, plus 4 kids to raise, plus all the household bills.]]

There is no need to fret. I know this sounds retarded, but trust me; I've been dealing my whole life.
You have to let things take it's course. Things are hard now, but this is now. It will blow over you just have to keep working at it. Things may seem at their worst, but they aren't. There are people who would kill to have just what you have now at this current point in time. The future is scary...yes. But that's not what you need to be looking at now. Right now you just need to focus on what's important to you and keep your mind stuck on it, that way when it comes down to it, you are mentally focused enough to take on anything.

I really do hope things get better, and I'm terribly sorry for your misfortune. Just keep your head up and your foot down.

Good luck and take care.

Answer 2

Dear Boy,
You are born in Mesha Lagna, with Moon in Makha Nakstram Simha rashi. Due to Shani Kaatam, from the last two and half years things are very bad. Till July 2007 Saturn was aspecting Sun in the tenth, and this caused penury to your father. There are bad times more in the future. you are running Shukra Dasha till 2012. Till then you have to face difficulties. You will have your education completed. A lady will help you out. You will also get a decent job soon after graduation. Do not worry. Though the next few years are bad, later things will get settled down. Sun in the tenth and Saturn in the 9th will pull you out of problems. Jupiter aspects ninth house. When Jupiter goes to Dhanush in November end, your father will also get an employment and things will improve. Do not be desperate.Mercury and Venus in the 11th aspecting 5th Moon will get you entangled in a love affair, and at the last minute you will turn back. be careful. The present times are very difficult, do not worry. My date of birth is also Feb 4th. Take my words. Every Saturday do Dakshinamurthy Prayers. Being Iyers you would be knowing it, or get taught by your father. All the best. In case of more details ask me.

Answer 3

I can understand your feelings. It's life and you have to make yourself strong. Lot of courage and big heart is needed to cope with the hard times in one's life.
What I think is that the best option for you is to start doing some part time job and if in case you are not getting a good job which can fulfill your requirements or the money which you need, then stop your studeis for sometime, help your father both physically and emotionally. Your father really needs your help at this tough time of life and if you'll be with him, he'll not lose hope atleast. And pray to God as God never disappoint us whether He listens to us early or late.
Be a brave man and everything will be ok sooner or later.

Answer 4

The family business has been in doldrums ever since 19th April,2007. In fact, the situation has been worsening from August,2006.

The transit of planets will give some relief in educational matters before 15th August,07. The financial position of the family will begin to improve from the 20th August but before 19th September,07. However, the family may not be out of the red before 21st November,07. Thereafter, your education and financial position of the family will be on safer ground and you will be able to go ahead with your studies. Father's health will however, have to be taken care of especially from 15th August 2008 for one year at least.

Take care,

Best Wishes,

Ck

Answer 5

I have also crossed those situation in my life when I was in Palakkad during early seventies. Study well and see that you do your duty promptly....

N P Krishnan Iyer

Answer 6

Hey Cheer up! I suggest you better help your father, instead of worrying. I suggest find a job and earn some money. for you to survive in your studies and also to help your father paying house expenses...

Answer 7

get over it. the sun woulnt be so good if it wasnt for rain. and also noone on the earth can tell you your future because life is nothing but oportunities. only a fool would think that life is set out for them, pull yourself togerther and make life the way you want it.

Answer 8

Millions of us have had to pay our own tuition. Get a job and pay your own. Do chores around your neighborhood. Get the money for your education anyway you can (besides loans). Best wishes. Don't worry. It's the opposite of trusting God.

Answer 9

Life is full of disappointments. Get used to it.