Help this is Awkward my friend dated this girl 6 months ago?

Question

and broke up after 4 months due to her age?
of being short of 18 and went bk to his exgf for 5 months and have just recently ended it.

Well heres the prob. I found myself drawn to my friends exgf (the one who was under 18 but will be in a few months) I asked her out (since my friend went bk to his gf shortly after the break up with the girl i liked and it had been almost 6 months) and we have been dating heavy for over a month now & feel there's soo much there for us. But my friend came over to my house after id been dating this girl (he didn't know) for 3 weeks and told me hes going to try to get bk with her and hes been calling her and asking her out but she always puts him off. Now i was going to tell him but was shocked to find out he had feelings for her again...but my new gf does not for him and would never go bk. But here where I need your help...we can't keep this a secrete anymore so how is the best way to handle this one? thanks

Answer 1

Tell him. It's that simple, if he's your bud, he will understand.

Answer 2

Just tell your friend and your gf (his ex) to just sit down and have a chat. Talk things out. Things will probably get heated but remain calm. If you start losing your head then bad things will happen. The only thing you can do is flat out tell your friend what's been going on. I wish you luck.

Answer 3

That would have been the best time to say something like "Hey, you had your turn, I'am dating he now."

You had better tell him before it becomes a problem. Of course, she could always say something like. "Look I think you are nice, but I am really interested in your friend now."

Answer 4

one of you need to tell him...you can say I am dating her or she can say she is more interested in you than he and leave it at that.

Answer 5

just be honest, if you didn't do anything wrong he should get over it. it sounds like she was fair game. its not your fault she likes you better.