Im absolutley in LOVE with him and all but uh..he is gay. WHAT CAN I DO? and if anythign, i know- leave him be, i want him to be happy . so no one has to tel lme that! stop being so cruel ppl!
2007-07-16 18:14:03 · 29 answers · asked by Crazychik 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
My view is this. If he's truly gay, then no, you def. can't TURN him str8, and also, he probably wouldn't WANT to be turned str8, because he's happy the way he is. Darling, if you love him but he really IS gay, I'm sympathetic towards you (I know how you feel, I fall for str8 guys all the time *sadd face*), and the only advice I can give you is to try to get over him and find someone else.
BUT, our teenage years are EXTREMELY confusing times, even dealing with sexuality issues, and I've had lots of friends that announce their homosexuality one year, and then the next they realize that they really AREN'T homosexual at all (this mostly happens with my bi friends, and I've never heard of it happening with any gay men, but I assume it's possible). Theres a slim chance that this friend of yours might be going thru a phase like that, and sooner or later he'll realize that he's not gay... but thats a very slim chance, so I wouldn't count on it. Like I said, try to get over this guy and find someone new... preferably someone who's not homosexual ... lol. Loves ya darlin!
~!*Mr. Izzy Fabulous: Diva in Training*!~
2007-07-19 06:53:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're absolutely sure he's gay, and not a bisexual, there really is nothing you can do. But chances are if he is 15, the most he probably is bi, not gay. He may actually be straight and being "gay" is just a phase or an attempt to get the extra attention that he desperately wants but can't seem to get as a straight guy. He may not feel appreciated as straight, maybe he feels that he has no chance at that or he sees girls for as they are.
There could be many possibilities to what he is or isn't, it's too hard to say for certain what he is while he is only 15. But if he believes he is gay, that is how he is going act and be expecting. But like I said, he might not even be gay in the first place.
Maybe you can slap him or get someone to beat him up. That might knock some sense into him, or give him a lap dance, that will turn him straight.
2007-07-16 18:22:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heh. I feel your pain. The guy I had a crush on in 9th grade turned out to be gay too. Nothing to do about it really, though. Just be glad the shoe isn't on the other foot where you're gay but any random person you fancy is more likely than not to be straight. Odds are the next guy you fall in love with won't be gay. Hang in there and try to just appreciate him as a friend.
2007-07-16 18:22:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-03 23:54:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe. 15 years old is not a mature age yet. Most people at teens/adolescence period like to try this & that.
But why do u wanna change him? Do u like if other people "change" u too? If he's really gay & ure not, I think u should 4get about him & try find urself another man.
2007-07-16 18:21:12 · answer #5 · answered by me, myself, and I 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't change the way someone is.
It would be like me wearing contacts to change the color of my eyes. Even though they would appear green, they would still be grey. The contacts do not change what color my eyes really are, it just hides it.
If you somehow turned this boy straight, he would still be gay down inside.
Sorry, but that is the way life is.
2007-07-16 18:16:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Can't really turn anyone straight anymore than you can turn a tall person short. LOL.....But to be honest.....if there is something there you guys will find out. Being friends is sometimes better. You won't have to worry about losing them to someone else.
2007-07-16 20:02:14 · answer #7 · answered by rob lou 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
didn't i answer this question already : )
SO you do like him.
Unforatunaly silentwrath is right.
You can't turn a gay/straight person straight/gay.
I wish i could turn some straight girls gay. lol
2007-07-16 18:40:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I got a bit rough with you before, because I've had plenty enough experience with people, mostly women, trying to mess with my sexuality!
That said, why don't you love him as he is?
You think you can't love someone without getting him to poke you?
If you will love him as he is it will make both of you happy.
If you continue to want to change him...
THE most dominant trait in women,
you will make both of you miserable!
I have several friends who are girls...
we have good times... two of them love to gang up
on me and tickle me silly, but we don't have sex.
Enjoy him and love him as he is!
2007-07-16 18:22:54 · answer #9 · answered by teetiger 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You cannot force him to become straight if he doesn't want to.
On the other hand, if he is not happy being gay, he should go see a psychologist for counselling & therapy.
2007-07-16 22:22:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋