Sometimes it takes up to 20 minutes.And sometimes i don't at all.And it is quite embarrassing.She says she doesn't mind but i do.
2007-07-16 17:34:01 · 7 answers · asked by Eric. 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
DON'T complain - just keep going!
You could always wind up being a "hair trigger" guy sometime down the road...
This sort of pressure is one of the biggest reasons that WOMEN have trouble having an Orgasm in the first place... Just don't worry about it, and try some new positions in order to find out if sonething's "just not working" for you ;);)
2007-07-16 17:48:29 · answer #1 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men often fail to ejaculate because they are preoccupied with their performance, so it becomes hard to "let go" enough to come. Are you trying too hard (no pun intended)? If so the resolution is to continue with good communication with your partner about any concerns between the two of you, and focus on how good you feel, not on ejaculation success.
If you are a smoker, you might try quitting to see if that helps. There's an association between smoking and problems in sexual functioning.
It can also be difficult to ejaculate if you've done so recently.
Final consideration is if you have diabetes or if it runs in your family...sometimes vascular degeneration associated with diabetes impairs sexual functioning. If you have any concerns about this a doctor can help to screen you for physical causes.
Finally, you don't give your age,but keep in mind that as you age you do not function as quickly as before.
2007-07-17 00:52:03 · answer #2 · answered by Pat D 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
First of all if you keep going you are sure to eventually ejaculate. My guess is that if you go for more than so long it becomes a pyschological thing and you worry about it which probably does stop you from ejaculating. Seriouslly that is not a bad thing. If you really want to come quicker then i guess you can try more foreplay.
2007-07-17 01:58:19 · answer #3 · answered by Brent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming you're under thirty-the time frame you mentioned is normal. In fact most women would prefer a man who takes longer to ejaculate than one who does too quickly. Count your blessings.
2007-07-17 01:16:02 · answer #4 · answered by MAK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First is to discover if it is physiological or psychological.
If you *** when you masturbate it is probably psychological.
If it is psychological, it will take a lot more than I can tell you here. E-mail me davelennv@yahoo.com, if you think it is psychologcal and I will give you some hints and ideas
2007-07-17 00:40:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well maybe its just that she doesn't attract you sexually or in other words you just don't find her "sexy & hot" anymore
2007-07-17 00:51:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
parctice makes perfect!!!
2007-07-17 01:59:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋