well yes i know im very stupid but me and my boyfriend had sex more than 13 times without a condom and once he busted in me but just a little bit is there a huge possability i can be pregnant or a low chance...? and if your pregant for about 3 months and your showing and you get an abortion would you go back to your normal size or would you have extra skin?
2007-07-16 17:28:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
you didnt say anything about your cycle schedule, so its better to use a baby check, for your second question dont be worry, u will go back to your normal size with out extra skin
2007-07-16 17:32:47 · answer #1 · answered by ari m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firts of all, you are not stupid. You are however being very irresponsible with your health and future.
There is a very good chance you could be pregnant. If you are not ready for this you need to be on birth control. Even if your boyfriend is not ejaculating inside you, there is still pre ejaculatory fluid that contains sperm. This can get you pregnant. Stop having sex, go get birth control at a family planning center. If your period starts, start your birth control....if it doesn't start, get a test. After you are on your birth control you can safely resume having sex.
PS You should always use a condom unless you are BOTH monogomous and have been tested for STD's recently.
Oh and as for this person above me, do not listen to the adoption part. They have no right to assume to know you or what kind of mother you would be. It is amazing how even the biggest party girl will step up when she needs to. I have seen it many time. Adoption is another issue. First, just find out if you are pregnant. If you are, talk to one of the coucelers at the family planning center.
2007-07-17 00:36:55 · answer #2 · answered by Jackie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would gradually lose the weight, but I am pretty sure that you can't abort a baby at three months. Doesn't that have to be done in the first 6 - 8 weeks? And why would you kill it? If you don't want a child give it to some infertile couple that does want it. I very much hope you aren't pregnant.
2007-07-17 00:38:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you thinking you're 3 months pregnant? If you've missed a period, or a few, you need to take a pregnancy test. You could be pregnant, having unprotected sex is how any of us get pregnant. Even "just a little" can be plenty to create a child. I suggest you take a test or see a doctor if you've already missed your period or if you do miss your period. And please obtain some reliable birth control so you don't have to worry about this in the future.
2007-07-17 00:33:01 · answer #4 · answered by layla983 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I stupidly got pregnant at 17 and decided the best thing to do for myself was to have an abortion. I had the procedure done at 3 months and my body soon returned to how to was before.
Having an abortion after three months is usually against the law unless it's for medical purposes.
Good luck and I hope you make the right decision and learn from your mistakes.
2007-07-17 00:37:03 · answer #5 · answered by Danni 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Even if you had sex just once without protection you could get pregnant.I don't think you should be having sex you don't sound old enough or very responsible.If you are pregnant please give the baby up for adoption.There are people that cant have babies and would love to adopt a child.I hope after this scare you will be more responsible.
2007-07-17 00:36:54 · answer #6 · answered by kittens 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unprotected sex even without a discharge can lead to pregnancy. So, if you have missed a period, get a check up. The later parts of your question are better answered by the doctor.
2007-07-17 00:37:46 · answer #7 · answered by Swamy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible to become pregnant even if he doesn't ejaculate in you. He cant feel the pre-ejaculation, so it is a possibility you are pregnant. And also mast women do not start showing till about 20 wks....the uterus doesn't reach your belly button till 20 wks. So the possibly that you are showing is very slim. Go take a test to find out if you are or not.
2007-07-17 00:35:52 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Leela's Mommy♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the is a chance that you are pregnant...always ALWAYS use a condom.....also if you are 3 months along its too late for an abortion sweetie
2007-07-17 00:37:25 · answer #9 · answered by niki g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're worried about having "extra skin", but not about whether or not your baby gets to live?
2007-07-17 00:38:37 · answer #10 · answered by whatever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋