At 14 you should be masturbating as often as you want. It is normal and okay. It is also good for you really! There are no bad side affects and it is not sinful or wrong. Just keep it personal and private.
The average length for an adult male is 5.5 inches. Use that to tell if you are ahead or behind in developement.
You should avoid soap. If you do not rinse it off well it will dry out the skin. Try with no lube and not holding the penis so hard. Just move the skin up and down. You can also use body lotions, vaseline, KY Jelly, olive oil, vegetable oil, hand lotions. Try jacking-off in bed, or at other private times. Just clean up with kleenex and throw into trash can.
Unfortunately porn is very easy to see in this day and age. Boys are naturally aroused by visual stimulation and porn producers take advantage of that. Keep in mind the following; porn is not honest, not all men are as long as porn stars, not all women like giving oral sex, most women do not like drinking semen, all the semen you see shooting out is fake, no man can last as long as they do in a porn movie. Remember they are actors and they are filming so the producers edits the film after shooting. The c u m scene is always put at the end. The sex positions in porn are for the benefit of the camera. No one uses those in real life. Satisfy your curiosity and then stay away from porn. You will have a better and healthier sex life. Porn can become addictive and you will end up having to watch it in order to have an orgasm.
2007-07-17 02:49:48
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answered by Geo 6
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1. Yeah, masturbating is normal, unless you do so too much and too often (like more than 3 times a day everyday).
2. That can't actually be answered since every guy grows at a different rate and at different times. The average adult penis size is between 5 and 6.5 inches (when erect).
3. You could use saliva or hand lotion, those seem to work well as lubes for people. You could also try jacking off without any kind of lube, though if you're circumcised that might be uncomfortable after a while.
4. It's okay to watch porn and HBO (or anything really) as long as you don't get addicted/obsessed with it. Just be discrete and don't watch it all the time. At your age, it's best not to get caught by your parents. :P
2007-07-17 11:37:07
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answered by trebla_5 6
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First of all yes its normal, second doctors say at age 14 4 inches is normal but it can grow till your 18 and third dont use shampoo or shower gel b/c if it ever got inside the head it can be dangerous trust me my uncle is a very rich successful doctor and watching porn is also normal
2007-07-16 18:43:36
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answered by THEATRE GUY! 2
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Haha ok I found out the hard way
Bar soap- no makes your hands and umm you know dry
Shampoo-works fine
Shaving cream-not mens go for the womens :D
Body wash-pretty much like shampoo
Umm well thats about all I got in my shower so have at it buddie
Oh yea and most the stuff in normal trust me I got addicted to porn and spanking the monkey at and early age :P
2007-07-16 21:29:36
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answered by Anonymous
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All pretty normal. No reason for concern. Don't worry about size. It will be what it will be and you will still love it. Some KY Jelly, or any water based lubricant, will be easier to wash off afterward. Don't allow yourself to become dependent upon porn for sexual stimulation, but a little never killed anybody.
Bet your Mom is glad you're staying so clean these days.
2007-07-16 17:14:15
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answered by Tom K 7
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yes its normal to masturbate, dont make it a habit like everyday though, its bad to overdo it. you wouldnt get satisfied with a womans body when you have sex, when the time comes. size? 14?? 3 inches would already be good when its erect, but of course its better if its a bit longer. hair conditioner or lhand lotion is ok too, try it. yes its normal to watch, because at this stage youre curious and stuff.
2007-07-16 23:41:30
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answered by Anonymous
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completely normal to start masturbating at age 14 even though most guys start at about age 12-13,normal size should be 3-5", try lotion or a body oil or something else, and its normal to watch porn at your age.
2007-07-17 06:01:17
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answered by Mitch 4
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Hi kid eveything is normal and ok. Oh to be 14 again but still enjoy jacking and porn.
2007-07-17 00:39:04
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answered by Anonymous
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1. I'm 15 and yes I've done it longer
2. 4-6" erected I'm 5
3. After a shower in your room: towel, sock, hand, use your imagination
4. Sure
2007-07-20 16:24:35
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answered by Anonymous
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1 - yup perfectly normal
2- well I'm 14 and 7 in .. but I'm told I'm above average .. so ill say average is about 5 in
3- use your own saliva ( but not in the shower) it feels like a blow.job
4 - yup .. i watch porn all the time !
your welcome .. email me if ya got any more questions.. be happy to answer 'em .
2007-07-16 17:30:43
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answered by sxzjknfdsijk 2
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