My first day of my LMP was Oct 9th, 2006 I am on a 30 day cycle for the past 6 months. My Dr. Calculated a EDD of 7/16/07, an ultra sound is telling me my EDD is 7/21/07. I don't remember the day me and my fiance were together during the week of Oct. 21st, 2006. I was with different man on Oct.28 and had unprotected sex although he did pull out. Who is most probable to be the father, today is July 16th and I still have not had the baby. So now Im scared.
2007-07-16 15:36:58 · 21 answers · asked by kristie0976 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Wow all the negativity, I was not engaged at the time, I was date raped when my boyfriend who is now my fiance and I broken up. I regret that date every day. And yes he knows everything and the possibilities, and he still proposed to me because our relationship got stronger after the incident. Please dont judge me
2007-07-16 16:04:03 · update #1
So you must be scared because you haven't told the fiance? You should have a heart to heart talk and come clean. Starting your life together with this huge sword hanging over your head isn't good.
So are both the guys the same race? Could there be a chance that the baby would be very distinguishable racewise from your fiance?
2007-07-16 15:48:57 · answer #1 · answered by tipp10 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even though I really don't agree with what you've done I also don't really agree with some of the responses you've gotten from people on here. I'm sure you feel pretty awful in this situation and I hope you'll learn from it. Anyways....as far as the dates go I think it's WAY more likely that your fiance is the father. Look at an ovulation calculator and based on the day of your LMP and how long your cycle is, you can figure out what day you most likely ovulated and you'll see it was probably your fiance.
A blood test or paternity test is the only way you'll know for sure but you would have to tell him the truth to be able to get that done. Maybe you'll get lucky and that baby will pop out and look just like him. Good luck and please learn from this mistake.
2007-07-16 22:52:50 · answer #2 · answered by RiaJoey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well the first thing that I would like to say is that you should not even have a fiance in the first place if your out sleeping around.
Second I really hope that you didn't tell your fiance that he is the father if you are unsure. Maybe you should tell him the truth instead of playing games with his head.
I think that your just another Maury show! I think that you should be more responsible about who your sleeping with if your not on birthcontrol or using protection.
So I don't really care who your babies daddy could be, because you are just going to need to take a DNA test!
2007-07-16 22:45:24 · answer #3 · answered by Just Another One 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Why would you even post this on here? Only thing that will determine that would be a DNA test after the baby is born. Hopefully your fiance knows so it can be done while you're at the hospital. Putting his name on the birth certificate and him finding out later (which he probably will) will only cause a big pile of crap that includes the legal system.
2007-07-16 22:47:33 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda Y 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope you are not still planning to marry your fiance' after you were with someone else. Obviouslyy there are problems there.
I would say that you were ovulating around the 23rd - so maybe more likely to be the fiance'.
Either way I hope that you are honest with both men - and fair to your baby in finding out who the father is.
2007-07-16 22:45:33 · answer #5 · answered by J B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to work in a Family Planning clinic. Unfortunately, either one could be the father. It really depends on how close you were to ovulation and how fertile your cervical fluid was. I don't think you would be able to guess since both encounters were close in time. Only a blood test will tell you at this point.
I hope he realizes that he may not be the father and you persure a DNA test. Your baby deserves to know who his or her father is, just in case any health issues come up.
2007-07-16 22:46:50 · answer #6 · answered by maplebecky 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Probably fertile October 22 to October 26. Check out the site I use to see when probably fertile, etc. DOes Fiance know he might not be father?? Anyhow, I wish you luck and a healthy baby!!!!
2007-07-16 22:48:31 · answer #7 · answered by Neve 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well girl it sounds like there is a high chance of either one being the father.....Have you told your fiance? You are probably going to have to wait until the baby is born and have dna testing done.
2007-07-16 22:41:32 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
omigod! Sounds like you need to call Maury! I get so mad when these women tell their husband or boyfriends they are the father the entire time and let them get attached to the children. Then when the kids are 1 or 2 they drop the bomb on the poor unsuspecting men. WTF is wrong with you people and why not use a condom at least? Hopefully you don't catch aids, I would be more worried about that! Thats disgusting! YUCK!!!!!!
2007-07-16 22:46:24 · answer #9 · answered by GavinandGabesmommy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well it could be either one.Sperm can live in the body for a week.The best way to know is by a blood test.And hopefully your fiancee knows he may not be the dad.Cause starting out marriage with a lie is never good.
2007-07-16 22:40:48 · answer #10 · answered by Ms.Danielle 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋