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that one of them was cheating on the other one ...would you tell them? why or why not..?

2007-07-16 13:55:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music Polls & Surveys

11 answers

It depends on the person. Mostly, i find it better to keep my mouth shut when it comes to peoples personal relationships.
If it turns out badly, you might get blamed for the problems. If it was my mum or something, I would tell her ... I am not fond of her husband, but, mostly, like I said, I wouldn't bother.

2007-07-17 02:39:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

have had this happen and to be honest I just distance my self from both of them.........the wife [in this case asked why] and I told her that I did not like her messing around and by not really having much else to do with either of them I was not being put in a position to lie for her................

On the whole I would not tell more for the fact that I know that some where along the line the messenger gets shot..........BUT if it is a girl friend that is being cheated on and they are not married then I will tell her as gently as possible, more hint around the subject and see if she takes the hint.

2007-07-17 09:20:35 · answer #2 · answered by candy g 7 · 0 0

I would go to the one cheating and tell them that they need to come clean to the partner, because if they don't, I will have to, even at the risk of losing friendships from both of them. I would say that I care about them both too much to keep living with this knowledge. I would say that my only other course of action would be to distance myself completely from them both. And that would cause the partner to start asking what in the world was happening....which would cause the truth to possible come out anyway. I would say that I do not want to be involved or take sides in this....but it hurts me too much every time I am in their company. Something will have to give. And I would end by saying that in my heart I would hope that if someone was cheating on me, that I would want either of them to tell me. In fact, if they were my friends I would expect it. So , even though it's hard. I am giving what I would want to get.

2007-07-16 14:04:39 · answer #3 · answered by tlbrown42000 6 · 1 1

IF you choose to tell the person there is cheating going on, be prepared for a freak out. Chances are they will find fault with you. It's not your fault, it's the cheaters fault, of course but you'll probably get blamed for something. That's how it usually goes. Best of luck to you hon, take care.

2007-07-16 15:05:25 · answer #4 · answered by wwhrd 7 · 1 1

Well you have to be better friends with one of them..if the one your better friends with is the one being cheated on..then I would.

2007-07-16 14:05:57 · answer #5 · answered by Shanna's Mommy 6 · 3 1

I'd confront the one cheating and convince him/her to put an end to it. If it continued then I would tell the other.

2007-07-16 14:00:26 · answer #6 · answered by Spyder 4 · 1 1

I don't think I would say anything only because I wouldn't want to be in the middle of a mess like that :)

2007-07-16 13:58:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3 0

nope that*s one of the best ways to loose a friend..anyway you look at it..

2007-07-16 13:59:37 · answer #8 · answered by Barbie 6 · 2 0

yes i would because any good friend would.

2007-07-16 13:58:43 · answer #9 · answered by leeanneandwayne 5 · 0 2

probably not

2007-07-16 13:58:35 · answer #10 · answered by dana5169 7 · 2 0

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