It's like when I see him, I want to just take his bottom lip... and pull it over his face. I am over joyed to be pregnant. But I really want to be left alone. I want him to leave me alone. And of course he's a good man and I love him but I just do not like him. I want him to be there for his seed but I don't want him for me. In time will I ever get over this?
2007-07-16 13:19:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
hmmm its good to see that im not the only one going through this...im 30 weeks pregnant and i cant stand my baby daddy either...everything he does and says just annoys the hell outta me...i guess it'll pass...
2007-07-16 13:25:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh boy, that bottom lip comment was funny!
hormones do all kinds of crazy things to your emotions when you are pregnant. tomorrow you might be crazy head over heels for him.
just be sure you aren't giving him the cold shoulder for no reason, if he's as good a man as you say he is. You don't want to burn any bridges where the father of your child is concerned...even if you aren't together, you must be friends...well in a sense anyway, for the child.
2007-07-16 13:25:52 · answer #2 · answered by thinker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I felt the same way about my husband for most of my pregnancies...except the part of wanting him to be there for the kids but not me...I've never heard anyone say that so I don't know for sure if the feeling will go away but you not alone in the other feelings and yes they did go away, usually after the first few months after the babies were born.
2007-07-16 13:24:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, your hormones could be causing this but the most important thing is that you have to talk to him about it, remember you are not the only one going through this pregnancy roller coaster; I know you are the pregnant one but his is part of this. I'm sure you love him and want him to be with you two so don't let your hormones hurt the father of your child!!! Try to go see the doctor and have him explain your husband what's going on with you, I'm sure your hubbie will understand you and you won't jeopardize your marriage.
Good luck!!!
2007-07-16 13:36:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes your hormones are crazy right now it should pass in a month or so if it is the hormones. Trying telling him how you feel, and how you are hormonally unstable right now so he can understand why you are so angry with him.
2007-07-16 13:30:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is soooo common. I swear I would of divorced my husband when I was pregnant. But as soon as we were delivering our babies, he was the most important person in the world to me. I would have to say that is't probably your hormones talking!
2007-07-16 13:23:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
many of my girlfriends felt this way. im surprised none of thier men were murdered. i believe its normal. but try to be nice to the guy by explaining you need to be alone for a while but he needs to be within reach as well.
2007-07-16 13:28:15 · answer #7 · answered by lil ol me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will get over this, he will just have to grin and bear it. Try to do something nice for him when you are feeling less crazy, let him know you do appreciate him, especally for putting up with you!!!
2007-07-16 13:23:45 · answer #8 · answered by parental unit 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think in time you should be able to get over this.. if he is a good man, he shouldnt be punnished for being a good man. be happy you have a good man that comes home to you and cares for you! you need to relax.. you will get over it...
2007-07-16 13:23:42 · answer #9 · answered by tired. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel the exact same way except my baby father left me but i feel much better that he did is this normal??
2007-07-16 13:24:22 · answer #10 · answered by can u ♥ moi? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋