plz don give me the whole talk about how i shouldnt have done it!
all i need is comfort and guidance(how do i tell my mom??)
and plz dont just tell yell at me and say this is fake, because its not and im rly scare
2007-07-16 12:54:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
I am not going to judge you I did the same thing and I know how scary it really can be. Do you know I was so worried telling my mum but it was the best thing I could of ever done. after all the yelling she did, she was the one that helped me through everything. I did loss the baby at 16 weeks gone but if it was not for my mum I would have been lost. hang in there she will understand after a time.
2007-07-16 12:58:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
hiya chick
i am not going 2 yell or nothing because my sister was in the same problem as u she told me and then she asked me could i tell our mum so i did have u got a friend or a family member to tell her ?? my mum went mad for a few days and then she came up 2 my sister sat her down and said i am not going to be happy about this but i am going 2 help u she asked her what do u want 2 do and so on .. everything turned out fine i am sure your mum will be there 4 u after all she is your mum and she loves u she will be there 4 u ya if u need 2 talk more or want any help im me or email me hope i helped good luck hunni xxx
2007-07-16 14:07:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I'm happy that you are actually concerned and care about your baby. Because it is already a baby!
It will be very hard, I agree.. but you must just sit your Mom down and be honest with her. Do it now. Do it now and just get it over with. Then you will have the burden of carrying the secret alone off of your chest. Not only that, but very importantly.. you need to get to the ob/gyn. Everything will work out for you there too, I'm sure!
Good luck. You can do it. Just be strong and very courageous. Sit her down and be 100% honest. Then you can take the next steps to becoming a Mommy! Best wishes!
2007-07-16 13:00:59 · answer #3 · answered by Aimee M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok well im not gonna yell u did what u did and theres nothing that can change it...it could happen to anyone dont worry... Try telling your mom when she is in a good mood but not too good cuz you dont want to ruin it for her...sit her down and tell her that u are sorry but you are pregnant...It happen to me too and my mom was really mad at me for about 2 weeks but then she got over it and helped me out 100% and now loves being with my little girl...If u dont want to go to her right away maybe u can tell someone else about it but do go to the doctor and take ur vitamins dont try hiding the pregnancy by not eating it just effects the baby... Well good luck sweetie!!
2007-07-16 13:10:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Mom is your best bet for comfort guidance and help right now. She obviously won't be thrilled about the news, but she loves you and she will help you through this.
the best way to tell your Mom is to just sit down with her privately and tell her. It will be rough, but once it's out in the open you wil be better able to talk about all that's ahead of you now.
Good luck to you and your family.
2007-07-16 13:00:56 · answer #5 · answered by rose_32008 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh jeez that must be horrible. Telling your mom must be extremely hard. Don't worry though. I haven't had a kid yet but I'm sure you'll be ok but you better talk to a friend first and talk to the father. See if they have any advice. I hope this helped and congrats and I hope everything will be ok. :-) (.)=
(It's a face with a belly and legs! Ha, hoped this makes you feel better!!)
2007-07-16 13:01:06 · answer #6 · answered by Runner16 ♥ ツ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok relax....take some deep breaths, this is alot to handle and your body cant handle any more stress.....
First, make a doctor appt. or go to a clinic...make sure that this is for sure, and that you are ok.
Next...just sit down with your mom and tell her...she will yell and scream...but after a while chances are she will just worry about you and be a great support to you...and it always helps to have someone in your corner....
I wasnt quite as young, I was 16 but telling my mom was the hardest part for sure....
Good luck.
2007-07-16 13:00:12 · answer #7 · answered by Reda T 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Woah, um well im 15 to and i would be shiting my pants if i was in yo position, but anyway if you wanna tell your ma then try and explain it to her when shes in a good mood even tho she most likely to be mad no matter what but just try talking to her DONT LIE, cause if you lie about something like that then she will not be happy.
Good Luck!
2007-07-16 13:02:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you can't tell your mam, could you maybe talk to an aunt or close family friend who could sit your mam down and talk to her.She probably will be shocked but remember you were once her baby and she'll look after you.Hope it all turns out okay for you.Don't be too hard on yourself
2007-07-16 14:23:14 · answer #9 · answered by heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was 16 when i got pregnant and i left my mother a note on the kitchen table cowardish yes but im not a brave person and i was scared of my mom but everything changes when the baby comes
2007-07-16 13:13:25 · answer #10 · answered by kittypurplegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋