Help me! I have tried to relax during intercourse but nothing works. I just cannot seem to have an oragsm. My husband is thinking it is him. I know it has nothing to do with him, this is a problem with me.
2007-07-16 11:59:18 · 11 answers · asked by CallMeBabyGirl 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Do you mean that you can have an orgasm through other kinds of sex (such as oral or manual/masturbation), but you can't during intercourse?
If so, it's because most women can only orgasm through direct clitoral stimulation, and most women will never experience an orgasm during sex (without clitoral stimulation, that is). What you can do is try positions in which you are grinding yourself against his pelvis, or be in a position where either you or your husband can manually stimulate your clitoris. That or you can just be sure to orgasm either before or after your partner does.
2007-07-16 12:12:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are not alone with this problem as very few women do experience an orgasm during sexual relations. Assuming you do reach orgasm through other forms of stimulation you just need to understand it is not you or your husband it is just one of those things. Sometimes you can experiment with different positions and see if you can find one that works, but most generally you will have to give yourself a helping hand with some external stimulation. This should get you to your orgasm and enhance your sex life. Don't worry about it, just m ake a minor change or two.
2007-07-16 12:28:58 · answer #2 · answered by K K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very usual for ladies to have main issue attaining orgasm for the duration of intercourse. Since you will have that capability doing it solo, I'm ended in suppose your challenge can also be solved by way of schooling and verbal exchange. Read up on intercourse positions in courses akin to The Joy of Sex and even Cosmo journal. And some thing you be trained, take a look at it within the bed room and converse with him loud and transparent while he is doing some thing you prefer. Vocalize your satisfaction, speak soiled, do some thing you'll to permit him realize he is doing the proper factor. Also, take a look at masturbating in entrance of him. For starters, it'll exhibit him the way you love to be influenced. (Trust me, he's going to admire the lesson) But additionally having an orgasm within the presence of an additional individual is an totally intimate revel in. It's so intimate, that your mind would possibly create it is possess intellectual block as a protecting degree. Masturbating in entrance of him would enable you to get beyond that intellectual hurdle and enable you to simply benefit from the revel in extra.
2016-09-05 13:48:02 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is possible. Don't worry, it 's not your husbands fault. Sometimes it can take people years before they orgasm. Keep in mind that orgasming isn't your main concern in sexual activity. If you relax and don't concentrate so hard on it, it may come sooner than you think.
2007-07-16 12:40:33 · answer #4 · answered by souper_nerd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is weird... I can't have an orgasm either. I wish there was something we can do. The only thing I really think is that you have to relax and let everything else go out of your mind except what is happenening at the moment.
2007-07-16 12:37:32 · answer #5 · answered by tifftiff521 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Actually love, it is a problem having to do with your husband, and most men in general because they don't understand that most women do NOT come from penetration alone, they need either manual or oral stimulation. Get him to go down on you til you come screaming, babe, and if he won't either school him or find a new partner! PERIOD. No man should leave the bed until his partner is purring. End of story. (and no woman should leave until her partner is purring either.)
2007-07-16 12:26:06 · answer #6 · answered by calyx156 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be ur libdo(if thats the word) is really low and other thiings come into ur mind when having sex that happens 2 me so annoying cause it caues me 2 tense and its even worse since i got pregnant
2007-07-16 12:06:08 · answer #7 · answered by mummy of 2gorgeous boys 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Perhaps you are trying to hard...just let it happen...
Have you ever wondered why women fake orgasms. :)
Please don't be upset about what i am about to say, but if you tried making yourself orgasm first, then you could show your husband what to do.
2007-07-16 12:07:02 · answer #8 · answered by Jacqui 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yea it could be that the guy isnt lasting long lol..try oral sex
2007-07-16 13:18:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Different position [?]
2007-07-16 12:52:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋