why do they come out at the wrong time to the wrong person?
2007-07-16 11:30:58 · 27 answers · asked by hot sauce 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Perhaps below the surface of our conscious awareness we associate words that the anonymous wrong person may say or images surrounding us at that moment with the issues that are in our conscious awareness during our waking hours but we fail to resolve. This association is subtle and lies outside of our conscious awareness, in our unconscious mind. These emotions that we try desperately to conceal in the face of others are stirred/shaken by the association, and those once bottled up emotions run free and unfortunately trample over the wrong person in the process.
If there is no catharsis for your injured soul - discussing your strong emotions, writing poetry, art, or whatever helps you to deal - than those emotions may eat away at you and leave you purely bitter or bittersweet where random and undeserving people bear the effect of those bottled emotions because of the wrong place/wrong time factor.
2007-07-16 19:27:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because of the memory of what happened to you in the past that had you feel disrespected or violated in a psychological way and when someone does something disrespectful all those emotions attached to those memories of how you were hurt comes out at the wrong time at the wrong person to release those emotions. Bad things that people do to you like me and all humans shake us up inside and soon enough like a soda can we build all those emotions up inside us and those emotions of feeling violated in any way puts allot of pressure on our psychological well being which, soon enough someone pops the top when they say the wrong thing and we release those emotions. Life is stressful because humans these days say bad things and hurt each other as they socially compete which, has us all become too emotional because we all bottle things up.
2007-07-16 18:40:45 · answer #2 · answered by Dan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think because that person may trigger you to show your bottle up feeling by saying something or doing something that you may not like or just remind you of something
The reason why i think come out at the wrong time is because that when your mind is relax and it starts thinking about things you try not to
2007-07-16 18:34:58 · answer #3 · answered by drw 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that it's like a glass of water. Some people might pour some water in it... then the glass gets full. Meaning: you have all these negative impacts you try to ignore. But even if just one person has hurt you, just one person has filled the whole glass...the water might just pour out when someone else puts one more small drop in it (since it was so full). So if someone just makes you mad momentarily, you still might pour all of your bitterness on him. You shouldn't wait until the glass is full, but talk to the people who filled it. Don't keep everything in yourself, and you'll feel better! You don't need to hurt the wrong person for something he/she hasn't done.
2007-07-16 18:38:46 · answer #4 · answered by Hellomynameis 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No TPS I will never get ulcers, I do not bottle up emotions, I have real good control, but do it in such a way that they may not even realize I have confronted/insulted the person.
I am focused enough that if I want you to know what I feel about something I will tell you.....thank you for asking my opinion.
2007-07-16 18:38:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bottling up does not equate to control.... because bottles can break or become un-capped.
And the 'wrong person' is the master of un-screwing caps or has very slippery fingers.
2007-07-16 18:35:17 · answer #6 · answered by Ronatnyu 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be honest with you, mine normally don't. Most of the time they will come out when I least expect it and that is usually with someone who just maybe says what's the matter-or what is wrong. Someone you know really cares and I feel comfortable around.You can tell by the tone in their voice that they are trully concerned.Thats when mine start flowing.
2007-07-16 22:29:25 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
oh yeah...i bottle them up & take them out on the next person whos says the wrong thing to me
(though not intentionally)
2007-07-16 18:33:30 · answer #8 · answered by × 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because you've kept them bottled up for too long and they have to come out and make room for more.
because you're really not supposed to keep them bottled up. you're supposed to express them to the right person at the right time.
2007-07-16 18:34:51 · answer #9 · answered by eehco 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its sort of like shaking up a bottle of pop then setting it in the frig...the next person to open it gets the brunt of the explosion. (wow that's a pretty gosh darn good analogy..came up with that one on the spot!)
2007-07-16 18:34:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋