Can you tell why I should ever get married?

Question

I get bored with every woman I date after a few months (or weeks or days or hours). I had one two year relationship where the woman dumped me for cheating. The only reason I didn't leave her first was because she was an awesome cook.

So girls.. tell me what makes you worth committing to...?

Answer 1

Let me give you a more informed perspective: IMO don't bother committing to today's women - they've all been poisoned by the feminist culture; none of them are worthy wife material, b/c they don't know how to act like ladies and they're also notorious for creating unrealistic expectations -which plays a major role in why women are not happy in marriage and related directly to why women file divorces at a higher rate than men.

Think of the picture: she'll want to to provide AND help around the house, AND be sensitive to her needs, AND earn enough money, AND be available for the family AND spend time with her. Ontop of this, she will want to take over your whole life, claim your income as hers, to buy her a big house, an expensive ring then impregnate her and support the kids for 18 years. Moreover, expect sex on HER schedule, and expect to do 1/2 the housework, otherwise its considered "demeaning" and have little to no say in how the money should be spent

What's more, there will be no appreciation for your efforts, constantly dealing with a wife who is never satisfied by your hard efforts, how nothing you do is NEVER enough, constant nagging, b itching, whinging, less sex and plenty of emotional abuse. Then combine this w/ the fact that women are predisposed to think that they're better than you, b/c that's what they have been told growing up, so she will always feel that her needs are far more important than yours, so in order to get your needs fulfilled, you need to address hers first.

Why else do you think women make that argument that in order to for him to get some action in the bedroom, he has to do more outside the bedrom.

Now combine this w/ the divorce stats (50% chance of divorce occurring, w/ a 65% chance that it will be the one initiating by her), no-fault divorce and the financial and legal risks involved(she's almost guaranteed custody of the child in the event of a divorce, and can also seize anywhere b/w 50-90% of your assets, such as your car, house etc - ontop of this you have to pay child support and alimony not based on what you make, but based on imputed income, which is decided by the court), you would have to be a moron to enter into a legal contract w/ them.

So ask yourself: what can you actually gain from marriage? Nothing. It's a losing proposition, so why bother limiting yourself when you can just get the milk for free w/o buying the cow, and let some other clueless idiot deal w/ all their nonsense? Just remember that the risks and liabiltiies will always outweigh the benefits of marriage. Bottomline is: Don't marry!

Answer 2

A good friend of mine recently said about his wife:

"I never met a woman that I could live with, until I met a woman that I couldn't live without."

Don't commit to anyone who doesn't give you that feeling. What would you do if you committed to someone, then found the right woman later? I'm not talking about getting bored with the one you're with, I mean there is at least one person out there who is truly meant for you.

However, a lot of us "girls" are worth committing to. You just haven't met the right one. =;o)

Answer 3

Marriage is not something for everyone and it dosn't change the persepective's of the relationship (well supopsedly) marriage is a long term commitment that takes two people who are devoted to each other and are commited to make it work and work at it to work.

You are not the marrying kind unless you find yourself a woman that is open to a open relationship or a swingers lifestyle so that you would never be bored...

When you find the one things will change perspective for you and you will know when that happens because no one else will be as good as them.

Answer 4

for love! bottom line!
if you want a maid committ to a service not achick
if you want sex go to a prostitute
if you want long lasting communication, bestfriend, passion, the find someone who meets your needs!
not every girl is your type!
and for what i can see you won't find her unless there are more passive females out there who love to be walked all over and cheated on..
I use to get board with my men i'm in my longest relationship now! but he is the one! and we both know it!
once you find the right girl you may change your mind too!
but if you look for her you will not find her! just how stuff works!~

Best of luck! and being single isn't a bad thing so don't commite unless you mean it or want to hurt people for no reason!

Answer 5

Your statement tells me that you should never get married because you are not willing to do the things necessary to sustain a long term relationship. Married people get bored with each other, too. The ones who stay together choose to remain faithful to their partners and work on spicing things up to alleviate the boredom, instead of seeking a new plaything, as you have done.

Answer 6

First off: don't cheat. Bottom line. You can't have two relationships at once.
I think you might need to look at yourself for problems before you start blaming the entire female sex for your commitment issues.

Answer 7

well im not going to tell you to do anything Brad D. Its up to you if u decide to gte married. Wether you do or you don't it doesn't affect me in any way. If you ever get married though do it because you really love the woman and are going to treat her right.

Answer 8

So, you think that you are marriage material?? You cannot be serious!! I'm sure that you are quite boring and you probably would not know how to operate a microwave oven. You're a fool !!

Answer 9

Stay single. Some people are not meant to be with someone and you are one of them.

Answer 10

Brad here's how I think: (this is for the sake of your question only) I'm not about to convince you of anything; why should I? We work out we work out, we don't we don't. (shruggs and walks off)