okay so my boyfriend stuck his penis in all the way in but it didn't hurt. I don’t think he broke my hymen because I didn't bleed and it didn’t hurt. So I wanted to know am I technically still a virgin or no because my health teacher said some girls don’t bleed, some break it by riding horse’s or bikes (which I never do), and some girls just aren’t born with it so can anyone help me understand what’s going on because his penis slides all the way I with no problem and no blood and no pain.
2007-07-16 10:02:53 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
My dear, once a penis has been inserted into your vagina, you are NOT a virgin. End of story.
The presence or absence of a hymen is NOT proof positive of virginity. A hymen can be torn by a sharp fall on your butt.
If you are this ignorant of the workings of the female genitalia, then I would urge you NOT to have sex until you are more informed about how sex and pregnancy and STDs can change your life FOREVER.
2007-07-16 10:05:42 · answer #1 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
If you have a really thin hymen, it won't have many (or any) blood vessels or nerves, so no blood and no pain when it tears.
And no, you aren't a virgin any more. A penis thrust all the way into a vagina is about as virgin-nullifying as it gets. It doesn't matter if you bleed or not, if it hurts or not, or if he ejaculates or not.
2007-07-16 18:24:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Consider yourself lucky! You probably broke your hymen as a kid playing. But , if you never had sex before, you WERE a virgin. I broke mine playing on a jungle jim when I was a kid. I remember it hurt really bad, but I didn't check for blood, because I didn't know anything. The more I think about it, it must have REALLY hurt for me to remember it! You did, and just don't remember it. Very common. :)
2007-07-16 17:13:40 · answer #3 · answered by LadyLynn 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all girls feel pain or bleed, but if the penis went in then you are no longer a virgin. You should consider yourself lucky. God Bless! :)
2007-07-16 17:27:31 · answer #4 · answered by ladycddles 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he did that, you are no longer a virgin. Breaking of the hymen doesn't lose your virginity, that can happen at any time, and yes, some are even born without a hymen. You lose your virginity the first time you have intercourse.
2007-07-16 17:06:33 · answer #5 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You were one until you had sex.....so before he stuck his penis all the way in you were a virgin...In my opinion one you have sex (penis goes in) you are not a virgin anymore....I didnt bleed either but it did hurt
2007-07-16 17:07:58 · answer #6 · answered by any 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe once intercourse has occurred (his penis was inside you), you are no longer a virgin. Like you said, not everybody bleeds, and if you were well lubricated, you probably wouldn't experience pain.
2007-07-16 17:05:57 · answer #7 · answered by Furry 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If his penis has been inside of you, then you are not longer a virgin. It doesn't matter if you bleed or not.
2007-07-16 17:06:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is a myth we can bleed or not and pain is not a rule, if there was penetration you are probably not a virgin anymore.
2007-07-16 17:11:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've had coitus, vaginal sex, penetration. You aren't a virgin. The physical state of the hymen has nothing to do with it. You probably broke it yourself somehow.
2007-07-16 17:36:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋