Whenever something good happens to me something bad happens next...Why is this always happening to me? Why can't I be happy? :-(
2007-07-16 09:39:51 · 15 answers · asked by Claudia 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Do the good things result in the bad things?
Are the good things that happen to you really "good" and are the bad things really bad? Dose it only happen to you?
Happy is a mindset; your happiness dose not always show it's self with a smile and a cheerful attitude--you can be happy and quiet and non-emotional. The key is to locate, identify, and understand what your conscience, (your mind, yourself) is trying to tell you; like, your acting silly or that's not really what I want... You can create this reality, thus be happy(the mindset) always (on the inside), even though things might not be going your way out here. We all must discover what brings us happiness; for me the wrongs of the world overwhelm the goods, the past is too horrific, too wrong, too unhappy, thus I must always continue to search for Peace(in your mind; in any situation;when things are going completely wrong) Knowledge(you can learn from the smallest bug to the largest idiot and beyond; always learn, analyze, compare and contrast, Q......) Hope(without it everything else is meaningless)
May Peace, knowledge and hope revolve around your light of energy; your being; your mind(conscious and unconscious :)
2007-07-16 14:25:09 · answer #1 · answered by 123 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No one can be happy all the time. Bad stuff happens to us all....but some of us learn to roll with the bad times because we know something good will happen soon.
My famous words for my 22 year old daughter....sweetheart, nothing lasts forever, next year the bad stuff will just be a memory.l
2007-07-16 09:43:40 · answer #2 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That IS what life is all about. We weren't born here for all happy days - it's about ups and downs and how we handle them. Life is an adventure and a mix of good and bad. It's all about how we handle it all - growing and learning and sharing our experiences with others - that's living. It comes with maturity. (or it should)
Besides there are soo many people on this earth that are born and live their whole lives without proper food, clothing or shelter. Way more than we can even fathom - reflect on that and your bad day may just get better.
2007-07-16 09:44:20 · answer #3 · answered by svmainus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In everyone's life they always have their ups and downs it's natural. You just have to be strong and have lots of faith in God that when you do go through the downs times don't let yourself become down just keep your head up and also remember that in other parts of the world people are going through alot worse than whatever is bothering you. You should also think about the good things that are have happen to you when you are feeling down. The reason bad things happen to people is because God is really trying to test your faith in him by giving you obstacles.
2007-07-17 05:58:52 · answer #4 · answered by knickfan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your point of view. Instead of thinking bad things happening think about the good things.
If you don't get obssed with the bad things in life (believe me everybody has them) you will realise a lot of good things happening to you.
2007-07-16 09:43:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are alive aren't you? Are you healthy? Do you have family? Friends? Seen a good movie lately? Read a book? Was it sunny today? Find happiness in the little things.
2007-07-16 09:43:00 · answer #6 · answered by jblack988 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
man that sounds like me, last year I had the most magical moment just for it all to go to hell in less than 24hrs later.
Nice to hear words of encouragement isn't it?
I have no friends, my house is falling apart,my vehicle is falling apart,my mower, you name it!
I've been hopeful and praying for the best and here I am a year later still hoping and praying. Good luck to ya!!!
2007-07-16 09:44:12 · answer #7 · answered by I'm outta here 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's called life. the bad times make the good times that much sweeter. you need to hold on to the good times and there memories and look forward to the next good time. when they do come take time to revel in them and not dwell on the bad. hope this helps. Hugs Kuka
2007-07-16 09:43:28 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try looking at things differently...maybe the bad isn't so bad as the way you're taking it...
2007-07-16 09:43:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That always happen to me. I just went on, it may hurt but we'll be ok.
2007-07-16 12:51:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋