I think my wife has been cheating on me?

Question

I married this virgin girl from Pakistan. We attended the Majjid at the Islamic Society for the last 6 years. My wife had become friends with 2 girls from Jordan who seemed to be very promiscuous. They claim to go to women's outings but I found they went to hotels and met some other members of our Majjid. What is shocking is both my sons have really light skin and have grey eyes. My wife's two friends have a son and a daughter each, almost same ages as my sons and they look like brothers and sisters. I had a DNA analysis on my sons and neither is my genetic son. One of the women who is my wife's girl friends is married to a white boy with blue eyes and blond hair who converted to Islam. About 6 weeks ago he was kicked out of our Majjid for getting a married woman pregnant whose husband complained. I have a feeling he has fathered many children including mine. How do I go about asking for his DNA? He was the guy meeting my wife and the other 2 women in motels for the last 5 years.

Answer 1

Just bail out, why would you even want to know at this point? I know it's got to hurt deep in your heart but, you know they're not your...let her go. Or keep her and get over it. I'm not trying to be mean but this is your life and you need to gain control over it.
good luck and god bless you

Answer 2

If you let your wife know and you show her the DNA tests that states that these are not you children she will have some real explaining to do and backed into a corner like that with evidence she will have no other choice but to tell you the truth. If that does not work contact the establishment that performed the DNA tests for you and they should be able to answer any legal questions as far as going about getting the DNA legally. If all that fails take it to The Maury Show

Answer 3

First don't think...... find out!! Hire an investigator and get yourself some answers before you go crazy thinking!!! This assumption has been going on for too long...... you need proof evidence. Once you have that then just file for a divorce b\c there is no way of saving this marriage your already have doubts and have lost a lot of interest. as for the DNA test have a court order it (just call the court house and file a case)!

good luck

Answer 4

Have you never watched CSI? There is alot of different ways to get a DNA sample from him. If you see him out and he smokes, Pick up the butt, If he drinks cofee or any soft drink, after he throws the container away, get it out of the garbage. These items become public domain and it is not illegal for you to take them. Any thing he had in his mouth will be a good sample. If there is a hair brush that you know he used, if there is a skin tag on it, take it That is good too. His garbage on the curb is public domain and therefore you can take it. If you want to badly enough, you can get it. Husband also suggested to me to tell you that you can always just ask if you want.

Answer 5

you can't ask him, a court has to! don't feel alone one of my best friends went through this, he was having his second child and when it was born SURPRISE he was black, and my friend and his wife are not, he did not have to do a DNA test his wife came clean about the hole affair and it also turned out his first child was not his either, but because he had called the child his son for the last five years the court ordered him to continue being his father and nailed him with child support, on a kid that turned out is not even his, this happens so much some county's are thinking about making a DNA test mandatory at birth!!

Answer 6

I'm sorry for what you have experience in your marriage. My soon to be ex-husband converted to be Islamic. He has cheated on me, but he never gotten anyone pregnant, but me. You have answer your on curiosity about your children and you have proof that your children isn't your biological. If I was you I will divorce your wife on the grounds of infidelity and let sleeping dogs die about the DNA of the other man.

Answer 7

You need a divorce, while doing that you show the lawyer the results of the DNA test you had done, this would get you out of child support. You should move on, its hard but do you really care who fathered your children, isn't enough that you wife cheated on you, let her get the DNA stuff so she can get support from him or who ever the guy was.

Answer 8

You know that is F%$#@ up! But do you see that God is a revealer of secrets, you can never hide anything from the man above. I wouldnt even be bothered to find out who father these kids. Either you are attached to these kids with your heart or not!! I would divorce my wife the Man above allows you to do such in this situation and pray for another wife who knows how to keep her legs closed and who wants to worship just as much as you do. Never let the yolk be uneven when it comes to worship. Dont sweat it!!

Answer 9

Go to a judge with the details and the dna results and get a court order.Or you can just leave.You are not liable for child support.Then it would be on your estranged wife to get the court order and go after the s.o.b.Believe me,if your wife has no means to support the kids or herself,she will be after him like a duck on a junebug!After all she knows who knocked her up,she was there.

Answer 10

salam ok first i am so sorry this happened to you. now to get a dna test your wife actually has to request it for the boys for child support and then you will be able to know for sure if they are his children i think you should talk to her because cheating is a great sin that should not be done. also maybe you should talk to the imam and find out what you can do.i wish you the best of luck

Answer 11

What a shocker!!!! Definitely get a divorce!!! What a shame the children have to go through this. You have to decide if you will ever tell the children you are not the father, or that the truth will be kept confidential.