Okayy okay..i know what you all must be thinking..but i need some help. I'm terrified.
I dont know if i actually am pregnant (cuz i havent bought a test yet) but..i'm almost a month late. But heres the things im thinking about..
1. i just got my period this year so..i still might be irregular and this could all just be my freaking out over nothing.
2. We were safeee! Condem..everything! I dont get it..
point being..i just i dont know what to do. I'm scared to get a test, i'm scared of what the resault could be and if my parents ever found out (i cant even imagine) or anybody for that matter..
please just sombody tell me what to do, please help me
2007-07-16 08:40:48 · 14 answers · asked by Rori 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Honey, it is totally normal to be anxious. But for your health and possibly the health of an unborn baby, you do need to test. Prenatal care is so important. If I were you I'd call 800-395-HELP, they'll talk things through with you confidentially and get you the services you need for free.
I wish you the best and you can email me any time.
<3 Kelsey
2007-07-16 08:44:31 · answer #1 · answered by Kelsey H 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I hope you are NOT pregnant. Kids are beautiful, but they are a lot of work. You need to finish school, go to college and get a good job so you can support your children.
I agree with the person above. You are too young to be having sex. I am 27 and a single mom of a 5 year old. Believe me, it is no picnic. I love her to death, but it is HARD WORK.
I was married at 20, but things didn't work out. We were young and as we got even just a few years older, we grew in different directions. Be careful. You are young and still growing and learning about yourself. In your mid 20s you will see what I mean. If I was the person I am now 7 years ago, my life would be on a waaaaaaaaay different path. (there is my motherly/sisterly advice)
Go get a test and ease your mind. At least you will know if you are or you aren't. Good luck! ((hugs))
2007-07-16 08:52:58 · answer #2 · answered by I LoVe ﷲ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i don't understand, yet i don't think of it somewhat is alarming to have first era at 15 - anyhow, as quickly as you have it, you will in all probability wish you probably did not. Your hairs right here and there are the indicators which you're maturing. top and breast sizes are unbelievably individual. that isn't be the data of adulthood. a very progressed breast can so small that it infrequently looks there. My spouse had your length till 30 while she nursed 2 little ones with none subject. and that i constantly got here across them attractive and engaging, too. so as which you shouldn't worry approximately, no count what all and sundry says. you're in all probability very nice ;o)
2016-09-30 03:22:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please young lady,don't fool yourself about running away from the fact.You had sexually intercourse and you claim to have used a condom,i say that is not true.Why would you be afraid if you are sure of what you did, besides condom is not hundred percent so go get a pregnancy test and see for your self the result while you still got time.Good luck...and be careful next time ,you are still young to over enjoy this act.
2007-07-16 08:54:49 · answer #4 · answered by jazzy1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you just started your period it is probably irregular but just to be safe take a pregnancy test. Honestly you don't need to be having sex at fifteen anyway...way to young. If you are pregnant tell your parents in a responsible way and do tell them cause if you don't they won't think you are responsible enough to have a child. good luck!
2007-07-16 09:06:37 · answer #5 · answered by justagirl. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must take the test, and soon. If you wait too long you're options are limited, so you should find out as soon as possible so you can make the best decision that's right for you. Good luck!
2007-07-16 08:48:59 · answer #6 · answered by analicia_d82 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear friend, The reality is, that it is likely, that eventually two people who are not married, who tempt themselves by being alone with one another, will create a baby or share a disease. You can get support and information at a pregnancy help center, which you can find by googling optionline, or call 1800afamily. Please take good care of yourself and your baby if you are pregnant. Sincerely, Runner
2007-07-19 06:36:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i would get the test as soon as possible and call that number for help..i hope for ur sake ur not pregnant and maybe just maybe this will help u see. U have ur whole life ahead of u, condoms break u could get pregnant u could get an std. Please let this be a learning lesson for u.
2007-07-16 08:55:56 · answer #8 · answered by Pres 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just a little thought for you while you think you are being "safe": Condoms fail about 3 - 5% of the time.
At 15, you are too young to be sexually active. You are not able to deal with the intended consequences of sex (to make babies).
2007-07-16 08:51:00 · answer #9 · answered by davidmi711 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
what I think you should do is go get a test its alot easier than you think I got pregnant at 15 I know and feel what your going through just get a test thats what I did
2007-07-16 08:47:41 · answer #10 · answered by babygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋