If u r being sexually assualted like fondling with genitals or oral sex while u r asleep from trusted family members & u have to sleep in the same place everytime, I want to ask u here (AND NOTHING ELSE), how to fall asleep without loosing concisiousness or at least a light sleep, so that u could wake up very instantly or just before they come near u, even before they could do any wrong with u? Specially when u r a boy (late teen) & u r getting disbelieved everywhere only because the abusers r extremely trusted female family members who r incredibly voilent as well ! Serious reply only.
2007-07-16 08:31:06 · 8 answers · asked by shakalakasan 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
This is very sick situation you are facing.
You have no option of sleeping in your exclusive place and you are being exploited by your own family members in your sleep.
When it happened once you were in sleep
But when it occurred again ... why did you tolerate ... You Liked it ! Your keeping silent is taken as Acceptance, Permission, and agreeing to the violence or exploitation you are facing.
You either stop asking the question or take some positive action.
Some options are ,
1) keep awake whole night .. pretending to be asleep.. You can keep awake by taking Strong Tea at the time of falling sleep.. You wakefulness will help you know when the offender is approaching you , when he/she has started to fondling with your.. how much to allow him and .. At what point to shout aloud such that offender has no time to pack up and escape to his/her bed...
do not feel that it will need lot of guts and will power on your part. Just be alert and wait for the right moment..
Once you start showing your assertive, the offender will either surrender and ask for forgiveness or will start fight with you... but do not fear... Just come out of the House threaten them to report to neighbours or police. Start Crying Loud ... You are the Winner if you are Innocent...
2007-07-16 20:49:02 · answer #1 · answered by krishprud@yahoo.co.in_KISHORLAL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you need to speak with a counslor or another trusted adult who can go to the authorities. If you're parents or family do not believe you, something is very wrong. Secondly, I would not stay where I know I would be harmed. Go to a friends house. If that is not an option lock the door, that way if they try to get in you'd hear it before they did. I'm suprised to hear that someone is being sexually abused in their sleep and do not wake up.
But again, going to a counslor of Child Protective Services is the best way out of such a situation.
2007-07-16 08:38:44 · answer #2 · answered by SeaChele 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The gravity of the sleep depends up your physique and stamina. Your mind has to adopt some sort of exercise that while on sleep even for a pin drop sound should be sensed. A grate exercise need to be practised for that. To teach you that you have to approach a psychiatrist.
2007-07-18 18:21:20 · answer #3 · answered by ky d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is quite unfortunate that the close family members are doing to you. Being a psychological person I shall suggest only one thing. You can have a direct word with that person and tell her that you are not interested anymore in that type of sex . You can also tell her that you will inform your parents if it happens again ,To my estimate mostly she may withdraw and will not trouble you in future. You can also ask for a change of place with your parents. Yours VRVRAO
2007-07-17 08:09:15 · answer #4 · answered by Raghavendra R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confide soon in an understanding elderly person who can arrange for an hostel in a different city on pretext of ur education. God is there to guide u, remember that u can contact abuser NGO helplines that can arrange for an alternate shelter.
2007-07-18 22:08:08 · answer #5 · answered by swati_chhavi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go immediately to Child Protection Services! Report the abusers and refuse to be placed back in that so-called home! DON'T try to ADAPT to the abuse! If I understand what you are saying....!!! School Counselors and demand to be placed out of that setting!
2007-07-16 11:33:38 · answer #6 · answered by Martell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have stuff lyed out on your floor or by your bed ...stuff that wood make noise if they Step on it or make them make noise if they step on it ---ouch
PS.dont make it look like u put the items there on like they were just lying there
this is just in case u nede some on to talck to or be your friend sorry i cant be of more help
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2007-07-16 08:48:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sexual disorder or mental disorder leads to pyschic disorder
2007-07-17 20:54:33 · answer #8 · answered by Rama Krishna 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋