its all normal, remember it took you nine months to make her, you can't expect your body to go back to normal too soon. As for the bitchiness... you just had a baby, for heavens sake!!1 You have labor to recover from, plus a newborn who needs you night and day, so you are ikely sleep deprived. He will just have to grin and bear it for a while. Its his baby too, make sure he's pulling his weight!!
2007-07-16 08:28:23
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answered by parental unit 7
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Yes the hormones will make you more emotional. I think the best thing to do when you are feeling "Bitchy" is to just stop for a minute and wonder "what really is the issue?" "what can he do to solve the issue?" if nothing, then keep your mouth shut. Don't take it out on him... rather share that you're feeling frustration and you don't know why, if you do, then tell him what he can do to fix it.
In regards to your body, congratulations on losing the baby weight fast. The hip bones may get displaced and enlarge if you did not have wide enough hips to begin with as a large object has to pass through that opening... that will not shrink... it is structural. Good news is that you can do something about the cellulite. I recommend a few over the counter options first: Bliss as well as Clarins makes great cellulite busting products, here is a link to products: http://www.sephora.com/browse/section.jhtml?categoryId=C620
Given you have a newborn, if the price range is not for you, I would try Loreal's Sublime slim line. You do have to use it religiously to see results. I suggest the lotions, both the day and night... you will have to be patient with your skin.
A more darastic move is for laser resurfacing which will smooth your skin out all over but you will be in pain and red and inflammed for weeks while it heals (think of a bad sunburn, x5)... and a plastic surgeon can discuss options like that with you.
Good luck.
2007-07-16 08:34:45
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answered by HE'S NOT INTO ME 4
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your hips have moved to give birth to a child, they are never going back to what they used to be. Cellulite is just compact body fat so diet and exercise are the key there but if you are trying to get back the same body you had before the baby Good Luck and you will need it because that hardly ever happens without a ridiculouse abount of working out and constant dieting.
As for the bitchy with the boyfriend, well for one thing you have a child and he has not married you that's a good reason. Is he sharing the load?Does he help with the baby, take night shifts,change diapers or does he just go on about his business and leave all the work to you. That could be another good reason. You had a baby less than a month ago, you are tired and will be for a while what with a newborn to care fore. That could be another good reason to be bitchy with the boyfriend. Try not to let that get too far out of control or it could become a way of life and very annoying. Remember, he has not married you and you have a child to consider.
2007-07-16 08:29:33
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answered by CindyLu 7
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The faster you loose weight the harder it is to tone up and loose the flab. Your body has to have time to let the skin catch up to the weightloss.
As for the bitchiness, totally normal....you have more hormones going crazy post partum than you did while pregnant.
2007-07-16 08:25:41
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answered by alexis73102 6
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I know you can go to the chiropractor and they'll pop your hips back into place and as for the rest I still have 2 months to go with my first baby so I don't have those answers yet! lol
2007-07-16 08:40:03
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answered by only1opal 2
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sorry but you will have to work out to get that down, your hips get bigger because you had a baby and you hav eto work at bringing them back down, also,you might want to look into lipo to get rid of the cellulite. stop snipping at him, it's your genes that failed you not him. you have to work on yourself to make you feel good about you, not him. Congrats on the baby and good luck to you.
2007-07-16 08:29:44
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answered by rxing 7
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there are actually not any domicile treatments except you wanna throw your self down the stairs, this is purely stupid...are you even specific which you're pregnant? in case you had intercourse in straightforward terms 2 or 3 weeks in the past it ought to nonetheless be too early to tell...
2016-09-30 03:20:00
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answered by Anonymous
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