baby fathers?

Question

If a women has kids by her exboyfriends and she tells her new boyfriend that the baby fathers doesn't want to be in there life nor take care them. Is she lying? Is she the one who doesn't want the baby fathers around?

Answer 1

You have to just trust her. In some cercumstances the women could be lying. But she may be telling the truth. I know my first babies father decided he didn't want to be in his life for selfish reasons. I guess you never know and just have to have trust. Without trust really what do you have?

Answer 2

That's too general of a statement to answer. There are hundreds of reasons that the father may not be around. And unless the woman has given you any reason to not beleive her, you should beleive her. The fact is both situations arrise. Sometimes the man isn't willing to take on the responcibility. Sometimes the man wants to take care of the kids, but due to other issues (drugs, anger issues) the mom thinks it's best for him not to have contact. Sometimes women just don't want to deal with the dad and take the kids from him. It happens. Best thing you can do is ask details and get info as to what happened between her and the father.

Answer 3

That seems to be a rather vague question ~

Initially if you are questioning her honesty that is something that should make you consider pursuing this relationship. If you choose to enter a relationship with a woman who has children then you understand that another man may be a factor simply because of the children.

You need to ask yourself what attracted you to her ?
Is the relationship healthy for you ?

If you are asking this question because you have been asked to contribute "financially" to the overall well-being of these children that could be an issue. However, you should know that despite your relationship, the father of these children has a LEGAL "financial obligation" to these children. Its not an option for the fathers to decide that they do not want involvement.

Child support laws have been mandated in order for minors to be provided and cared for.

Your girlfriend is most aware of the issue of "child support" and that her children are eligible. If money is not being received then she better get some plans in motion because its part of her responsibility as a mother.

It would be best for you to not assume any financial obligation for these children.

You are doing yourself a big disservice as well as the children. In addition, the fathers need to be held accountable. So don't pay for another man's actions !!!

Answer 4

Depends on how the father reacted to the news of the pregnancy. If he rejected her and said he wanted nothing to do with her or the baby then I don't think she is wrong telling her new boyfriend that the father wants nothing to do with the baby.

Answer 5

Could be a combination of the both- he may be interested in social stuff, but not $ commitment, and she might just not want him in the picture at all.........and feelings could shift with the wind. It's hard to say, you'd have to hang around and get a better feel for the whole dynamics of their history.

Answer 6

does the babies father want to me in the babies life?? if so than yes she is lying. if not than she is truthful

Answer 7

Every situation is different. But if YOU don't trust that she is telling the truth get out of the relationship before she gets pregnant with your kid.

Answer 8

There's no way anyone here can know. We don't know her and her standard way of acting. Could be true, could not. But trust *your* instincts.

Answer 9

dEPENDS! SHE COULD BE LYING, BUT IT COULD BE TRUE! ONLY KNOWING THAT PERSON AND DO SOME INVESTIGATION IN THE MATTER CAN ANSWER THIS! ANYONE CAN LIE, BUT NOT ALL PEOPLE LIE! IS THIS PERSON CREDITABLE?