2007-07-16 07:00:30 · 20 answers · asked by seawave 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Memorise a poem or song (positive & uplifting) ... then when you wake up make sure this is the first thing she hears for the rest of her life.
I'm fond of Edeilweiss ... Edeilweiss (small white flower) ... each morning you greet me ... strong and bright ... clean and bright ... you look happy to see me ... bloosum and grow may you bloom and grow ... bloom and grow forever ... Edeilweiss, Edeilweiss ... bless our home forever.
2007-07-16 07:04:25 · answer #1 · answered by Giggly Giraffe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truthfully, pay more attention to her. Give her more sincere compliments, leave her little notes around the house for her to find, send flowers to her office, treat her to a spa day (away from the kids if you have them), wash the dishes while she puts her feet up and watches TV, buy her a bottle of wine and bubble bath and give her an evening of soaking in the tub, massages (back, shoulders, feet, hands, calves)
Take her on a date! Treat her like you did that wonderful woman when you started dating! Dress up in a suit, buy her a new dress, and take her out for dinner and dancing! Make the night all about her.
2007-07-16 14:05:52 · answer #2 · answered by theewokprincess 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here is what I love....Getting a kiss when my husband comes home just because he loves me. Getting a hug in the middle of the day. Being told I look beautiful. Having dinner made once in a while, and not because I asked. Being able to take a bath while he watches our son. Just little things. You don't have to buy her anything or take her out, just do the small things. That is what counts.
2007-07-16 14:05:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask her what she wants. Talk to her. Tell her how you feel, how beautiful she is. My husband will do that out of the blue and it is amazing. Make sure you mean it. Be honest with her. Listen when she talks and try to understand her point of view.
Women notice the little things, and the little things are better than anything huge. We remember the feelings associated with the moment.
Good Luck!
2007-07-16 14:06:09 · answer #4 · answered by Kenzie99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's easy...don't be selfish. Do things for her that you know you'd like to have done for you. Well, sort of, she probably wouldn't like you to get her a circular saw or anything.. but you get the idea. Think about her before you think about yourself. You can never go wrong there and it doesn't cost you a dime. Wash the dishes once in a while, do small little things to make her day easier... and I promise your "nights" will improve too!
2007-07-16 14:05:27 · answer #5 · answered by Joe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whenever you feel inferior or bad about yourself, tell her something nice about her. How she makes you feel when you are feeling particularly nice about her. How good she looks to you at certain times. Buy her spontaneous gifts that aren't practical. Realize all of the things she puts up with from you. Take her out on a date like you aren't married. Woo her.
2007-07-16 14:06:57 · answer #6 · answered by Pedro the lawnboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask if she needs a hand with any thing around the house, show her affection, surprise her by running a warm bath for her with scented oils and bubbles, buy a nice wine for her, surprise her by making dinner, take her on a weekend away to bring back the romance!!! Hope it helps... now i have to write them down for my partner...
2007-07-16 14:06:06 · answer #7 · answered by Honey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as her what she wants, if you have kids offer to take them while she goes out, give her a massage, talk about sweet old times you had, ask her what SHE wants you to do...remember the little things she likes, her fav place to eat, fav flowers, tell her how beatuiful she is, let her pick a movie for u guys to watch....make her dinner......or just ask her the same question, that will probably give you a better answer then you could get on here...
2007-07-16 14:06:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the dish's ! Haahahahahha. Study her and her needs . Tune into her like never before. Is she needing more love and attention or are you smothering her ? Get to know her intuitively.
2007-07-16 14:05:34 · answer #9 · answered by margo322 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pay attention to her and remember why you asked her to marry you. This is why marriage is hard work: it's hard not to take each other for granted.
My fiance and I do a lot of things together to keep us from getting selfish: we cook dinner together every night, spend time talking about our day, and we don't watch a lot of tv...we entertain ourselves.
2007-07-16 14:43:46 · answer #10 · answered by Peace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋