Well I have this friend and well.....he flirts with me. I mean he tells me that he loves me and things like that. I posted a bulletin on myspace where anyone could ask me one dirty question and that I would tell the truth. He asked me if I would have hot sex with him, I said "um.......sure, why not" then he posted the same thing and I aked the same question. He said "**** yeah". I just dont know if he is playing around or what?!?! What should I do?
2007-07-16 06:14:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well if I ask him, he will either lie or stop doing things like that. UGH!
2007-07-16 06:22:25 · update #1
I myself think that he is gay. He dont know if I will be ok with it though so he says those things and I i freak out he can use them as a joke...but I just wish ther was something I could do to tell him I'm gay and that im ok with him being gay...
2007-07-16 06:26:24 · update #2
Rohit Makhijani - Well I just wanna know. If he is gay then I dont care if we have sex or even kiss. Sure those things would be nice, but even if we dont do that I wouldn care. I just would be happy not living a lie to everyone. I would be able to be myself around him....
2007-07-16 06:30:01 · update #3
in my opinion the whole myspace thing is a slight interest disguised as an obvious joke...I'm not sure if that makes sense but he might be interested and just doesn't know how to address the entire situation so he jokes about it. You could take the bold move by asking him or keep flirting and see where it goes. If he's totally into you he'll come out and say something eventually.
2007-07-16 06:23:32 · answer #1 · answered by Ethan S <3 Da Ben Dan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok 1st of all after re reading your question I understand you are a guy,aren't you? Well, looking from a spiritual view point I think that you are just playing with your life and that guy is playing with yours. I don't see any wrong in you both having sex because I believe in what the heart says, whatever it may be. I think you should ask yourself if this is what you really want, if you answer yourself in affirmation, good for you go ahead and walk the line. But then also think of the scenario that might pop up if he is just joking around. If you believe in a short surviving spark then have fun with him, but if you look for someone who will be with you all thru then you should just drop his slightest thought even........ All the best.
2007-07-16 13:27:06 · answer #2 · answered by Rohit Makhijani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you ask him out on a date? there is more to life than sex with someone else. So why don't you ask him out and then flirt with him all night long... then see where it goes. You might get that night you are both after or you might decide to just be flirty friends. good luck! :)
2007-07-16 13:26:11 · answer #3 · answered by Jyse 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wish someone would ask me if I was gay. I just don't feel like bringing it up, and it'd be more subtle in my opinion.
2007-07-16 13:22:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are interested in him, why not do some flirting back?
If he is for real then you could be in for a fun time. If he is lying then he'll avoid you.
2007-07-16 13:25:14 · answer #5 · answered by nycguy10002 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him for some hard evidence that he's "for real".
2007-07-16 13:20:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Monkey see monkey do :-P
Just kidding, why not ask him directly?
2007-07-16 13:20:34 · answer #7 · answered by Gaymes Last Orchestra 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he lies and his nose gets bigger then he is not a real boy
2007-07-16 13:17:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋