How do you keep trying again, when every time you have a dream it ends up getting destroyed (whether through someone else's actions, fate, whatever)? How do you not give up?
I'm tired of it & can't take another dream gone...
2007-07-16 05:52:06 · 5 answers · asked by erihu 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
i used to dream about being a mother...i found out a few yrs ago i am unable to have children.
i dreamt about doing something amazing & fabulous with my life...i can't seem to get past this stupid job rut though...
i can't go back to school (still paying for the one that closed before i could graduate) & just feel like every time i have something that dares me to dream, life interferes & screws me over again & again
2007-07-16 06:24:51 · update #1
pick yourself up
dust yourself off
and try again...
and try again...
if you need to, inbetween getting knocked down and getting back up, take a moment to capture strength, think of the those younger than you who cannot get back up becasue they're too hungry and weak to actually stand, who're going to die where they lay and never even have another dream! Think of them....
destiny is yours for the taking it's of no matter how many times you fall before you seize it!
2007-07-16 06:30:11 · answer #1 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I go on a vacation and get to a new place with new people to inspire me.
In fact, I would move if I could.
If you need a real inspiration...go to Santa Fe, New Mexico. I get the feeling that you would find your answer there.
Don't let others take your power. They may make a short term dream fail...but it is moving forward and beyond that leads to success. Just run...........don't stop. Don't look back...and only remember to avoid duplication.
My secret.
By the way: you sound depressed. It is hard to make changes if you feel like crap. Lots of people are in debt...so just make the payments one by one. It will end eventually.
Your job is sucking the life from you. Just jump ship. Find another job...put the effort in...and jump. It will feel like jumping from a plane...lot of fear at first, but the rush of pleasure and relief will follow. Have faith in yourself.
As for others. XXXX them. Take that vacation, if only for 3 days...and find yourself.
Lots of women can't have kids. Just adopt if it is a life goal. Don't let infertility get you. There are lots of kids that need love.
2007-07-16 12:57:23 · answer #2 · answered by kishoti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dream about things that you know you can achieve. Know the difference between dreams and fantasy. You can make your dreams come true if you are realistic about them. Don't rely on others to make these things happen for you, you have to do them yourself. That is the only way. And you have to get back up each time you fall down, brush yourself off and try again. Nothing worth having is easy to get.
2007-07-16 12:58:24 · answer #3 · answered by Hot Coco Puff 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
When you are doing what you are supposed to be doing, everything just flows and works out naturally. Re-evaluate your goals and then go after them. If it's a true "dream" you wont ever be ABLE to give up. It's part of who you are. Good luck :)
2007-07-16 13:16:03 · answer #4 · answered by oracleofohio 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your spirit up. You will conquer you a dream. Keep Trying. Never give up, this is when you are a failure.
2007-07-16 12:58:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋