so me and my bf were talking about the future and sex. (we're both waiting till we get married to have sex, so neither of us have had any previous partners...) he asked me about having sex during my period...i told him that its all up to him, but he said hes worried about getting a disease or something through the blood...is it possible for him to contract anything if neither of us have had sex before? (we're both in our 20's btw)
2007-07-16 05:21:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Having unprotected sex at any time, including when you're bleeding, is very risky. Along with the risk of becoming pregnant, there is also a risk of getting a sexually transmitted disease (STD), such as chlamydia, genital warts, or HIV. The only surefire way to prevent pregnancy and STDs is abstinence. If you do have sex, use a condom every time to protect against STDs. And talk to your doctor about additional forms of contraceptives.
2007-07-16 05:28:00 · answer #1 · answered by eko 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
You wont get std's if neither of you have had sex with anyone before each other. I am also in my twenties and had only one partner. My boyfriend and I use condoms when having sex when I'm on my period because its messy. My guy thinks its a turn on but everyone is different. I recommend putting a towel down on the bed when doing it. Its easier to clean up that way!!
It can be sore on the first (and sometimes the second) day of your period BTW.
2007-07-16 05:33:02 · answer #2 · answered by shiny.blue 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no disease he can pickup from you if you have never had any with anyone else, Some virgin newly weds go for std testing before embarking on the sexual adventure , maybe thats an option for you.
But Personally- I wouldnt do it during a period, it's nessy and gross and puts me off, so I can't imagine how my bf would feel about it....
2007-07-16 05:27:28 · answer #3 · answered by cindz_jess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to stop being silly of course you cant unless you have n std which sounds like you obviously dont if you have not had sex before if i were you though wait till you are lighter as it will get a little messy ;0)
2007-07-16 05:26:21 · answer #4 · answered by loopy d loop 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
FYI since none of the other posters said it. Just because you never had sex doesn't mean you can't catch STD. Many diseases can be transmitted through oral sex, and a few other can be transmitted through other various means.
you must also take into account. Non sexually transmitted diseases can be transmitted through the blood too. STD aren't the only things to worry about
2007-07-16 05:31:39 · answer #5 · answered by bob 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
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2016-05-19 01:53:34 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as both of you are healthy (no STDs) then he wont get anything. He should wear a condom, since it is possible to get pregnant.
Orgasm can help with cramps. Jus place an old towel on the bed so you don't ruin your sheets.
2007-07-16 05:57:28 · answer #7 · answered by catsmeowjrk2000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably has nothing to worry about. You on the otherhand are at risk for infections. During your period your cervix is partially open, this opens you up for infections such as pelvic inflammatory disease, bacterial vaginosis, and common urinary tract infections. Sex during your period is safe but you should use a condom to keep things cleaner and reduce the risk of infection.
2007-07-16 05:30:44 · answer #8 · answered by nurseagee 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am not sure why you are waiting until marriage to have sex. But, if you are saving yourself because of Christian beliefs, the Bible specifically tells us that a man should not lie with a woman during her monthly period. That should be enough reason not to do it. And, if your reasoning has nothing to do with your faith, I would still advise you not to do it. It's messy, and it can be a big turn-off for your man.
2007-07-16 05:35:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
No, as long as you are healthy and don't have a std he won't catch anything. It's safe. But it's kinda messy though.
2007-07-16 05:25:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋