...your teenage stepson having a crush on you?!?!
2007-07-16 05:17:55 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
LOL zee zee, that much is obvious. Thanks anyway though.
He's 14. I found out when I accidentally overheard a conversation he had with a friend. I know it's just teenage hormones and a phase that won't last, etc...
2007-07-16 05:30:42 · update #1
Treat him with respect and kindness, but do nothing to encourage it. Discuss it with the father.
2007-07-16 05:20:59 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 8⤊ 2⤋
You are the parent. You overheard a conversation and that makes you think he has a crush on you? I really hate to say this, but is your mind in the gutter? I hope that at one time in their lives my sons had a crush on me. I interpret a crush as looking up to a role model - finding that role model interesting.
I guess we need the true definition of crush.
2007-07-24 01:35:33 · answer #2 · answered by Nan74 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh bless him.....but what to do....? Suggest not wearing anthing that exposes any amount of clevage as that's all that's on any teenage boys mind - let alone one that has a crush on you.
Talk to his dad just to make sure everyones in the picture, then make sure he spends as much time as poss with friends/girls his own age. Just dont make fun of it or him.....theres only one thing worse that a step-child with a crush on you and that's one with a hate vendetta against you!!
Good luck - of course it will pass and probably very soon....
2007-07-21 16:50:45 · answer #3 · answered by dawnnkev t 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would definately tell his Dad. You need to let his dad know that you have overheard the conversation. Let his dad speak to him if he must. But I wouldn't personally, its only a teenage thing, most little boys go through a stage of thinking they like someone older than them.
Good luck
2007-07-22 06:29:03 · answer #4 · answered by kewtiepie 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He has to understand that is wrong to fancy his Dad's partner or any married woman as a matter of fact. it is tough situation as you don't want to upset him. How old he is? how did you find out? hopefully it is just a crush and he will get over it soon. but if he has try on you, just tell him that 1st you are married, 2nd you are family and make it clear that it will never happen.
If you just heard a conversation then maybe you shouldn't say anything? just ignore it, he is only 14. just be the mother and that is it. As he might get very upset and embarrassed if he knows you know.
Good luck.
2007-07-16 12:25:17 · answer #5 · answered by Maon 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
JUST REMIND HIM often that u feel like he is your real son and how much his father means to it will soon pass keep a bit of distance between u don't hug him to often he could read it wrong his crush will move on to a girl he can have soon enough
2007-07-23 19:48:25 · answer #6 · answered by TAMMY A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think after a couple mo/ he will forget about it. just make sure you talk it over with the father. once you start telling the boy what to do now that you play the mother role. he will just see you as another mom telling him what and what not to do.
2007-07-24 00:36:20 · answer #7 · answered by tiffany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait, but don't encourage him.
You may feel flattered, that a young guy fancies you. Fine !!
When he is a few years older he will probably find someone his own age he likes. Your biggest worry is gossip. and if he talks to his friends it could be bad. Good luck !!!!
2007-07-16 17:13:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I think I would tell him that you accidently overheard his conversation. Tell him you are not angry or anything but his feelings towards you are not appropriate. Maybe mention that his father probably wouldn't be very happy either.
2007-07-16 12:50:27 · answer #9 · answered by mel 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you are flattered but you love his father. a crush is cut as long as it doesn't turn into complete obsession. let him have a party at your house. invite some kids (lots of girls) let him mingle and find some cuties. i hope that crush goes away!
2007-07-24 09:05:27 · answer #10 · answered by Moira K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG you need to talk to him hon. Tell him that you don't feel the same way about him as he feels about you and that you are not interested in him that way, also you need to tell his dad so that he can talk to him as well
If he is over 18 or 19 and your question is that you like him to then well that is your personal choice and his but personally I would do the first thing I said
2007-07-16 12:30:05 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋