Why can I not keep a descent woman? My sign perhaps?

Question

I am a sun in Aquarius, moon in Pisces, ascent in virgo, mercury in the fourth house, sun in fifth house moon in the sixth house, Venus in the sixth house, and Saturn in the eleventh house. I was born the 21st of January 1977 and can't seem to find a good woman, all I meet are psycho's and advise?? Please!!

Answer 1

I firmly believe we attract people to us. There is nothing in your chart that says you should take in psychos, but a pisces moon is an easy mark for a nutcase.

I don't know where you are finding your women, but you might try a different place, or at least use that virgo rising and make yourself a list of warning signs, traits you notice in all the crazies you have met. Then heed that list.

The right person will come along. You need to get past this phase to appreciate a really nice, even tempered girl.

If you want to know about someone, ask them about their past relationships. If they bad mouth their ex, and have nothing nice to say about that person, that should set off an alarm for you to get away, far, far, away, as quickly as possible.

You have some good placements, and that sun in the 5th house should make you a fun person, good with children.

Best of luck to you!

Answer 2

Jamie, Nicki, Alex, Fimke,
And Lotus gave decent answers i believe.

So, I will only add this... a see-saw love pattern is typical Aquarius. And you may attract a big amount of easy Aquarius girls bc you have an Aquarius bias.

Indeed Aquarius often means "i changed my mind", or, "the sky's not close to the limit". So you might want to forget about long term relationships with that kind of woman, until you are old and rich.

On the other hand the Virgos can be judged as "psychos". They hear scary voices at times (ok i might be the only man on Earth to tell you that), and they're perfectionists.

Third the pisces are not far ahead. In love relationships they can be crazy about sex like genuine demons.

From there my suggestion is, did you try a capricorn woman? That might be the best sign for you. The capricorn females are calm, clean and voluptuous like in Baudelaire's poems. Cancer is another and steady kind, but perhaps just too humble for your taste.

Answer 3

It's your Moon in Pisces and your Virgo ascendant that are causing the problem. The Moon in Pisces is in a water sign, which makes you prone to believe illusions, whereas your Virgo Ascendant is in opposition to your pisces moon, therefore you fluctuate between the reality of what you see in a woman and the illusion of what she is in reality. It means that you will choose the wrong kind of woman most of the time. Many people use the word psycho very loosely. Maybe your attitude has something to do with it.

Answer 4

Not to come across insulting,however your a little "out there" yourself aren't you?
I'm not saying in the "physco" sense,but you are a little loony in thought I would think,forgive me if I am wrong.
Your not attracted to society's standard of the "norm" because to you that is just boring.
What you are initially attracted to in these women is what ends up being the deal breaker when you get involved and take a closer look,correct??
Your a deep thinker,however you are also caught up in your own little world quite a bit,if I am not mistaken.
And you might be a little to finicky for your own good.
A super picky dreamer/thinker who over analyzes everything.
The right girl for you is out there,,,,,and she will still be a physco,but she will be reformed.
Because you are attracted to a wild card,and that's just the way it is.

Answer 5

Maybe because by the time you tell women that you are "a sun in Aquarius, moon in Pisces, ascent in virgo, mercury in the fourth house, sun in fifth house moon in the sixth house, Venus in the sixth house, and Saturn in the eleventh house", you bored them to death and they just want to get away as fast as they can.

Answer 6

Perhaps the problem doesn't have anything to do with your placement in the stars. When you are having a hard time doing something, you have to look inside yourself for the answers. Perhaps you do not love or respect your own self and you can only find women that don't think much of themselves either.

Answer 7

im not sure its ur sign but if you want to speak from a zodiac point of perspective you being an aquarius directly contridicts the pisces aspect. im an aquarius myself but my moon is in aries. however since the moon controls emotions (pisces is one of the most emotional signs) and the sun controls your outer personality (aquarius is one of the not more emotional signs). perhaps your always in conflict with like what you REALLY want and what you PROJECT that you want. feel free to contact me. good luck! :)

Answer 8

I guess it's because I don't understand everything you just said and what it means for you, but I think you should quit worrying what moon is in what house and concentrate on what your behavior is around women, and why you are attracted to psychotic women. Maybe you act/behave a certain way that attracts these women.

My brother used to be this way. He was funny, but a little shy and awkward around groups and pretty women and he is extremely intelligent. And he was insecure, so that didn't attract secure, confident women.

Answer 9

I'm not sure if it comes down to starsigns and astrology,but i think you can meet and keep a good woman by being yourself,or better yet finding a woman who shares your common interests!

Answer 10

We all have impressive/conflicting numbers/stats like that and I don't think its reasonable to blame the stars for your choice in women. If you want a better woman seek her our in better places & take your time.