Im staying in a hotel room next week with my friend that I haven't seen in a while. We are both gay and used to always play around together. (Sex, JO, Oral) I haven't seen him in a while and I'm pretty sure we both want to do it again. How can I make him comfortable enough to have sex with me?
2007-07-16 04:45:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
be easy, dont seem to eager and just let it run its course...Because if he wants you to, you wont have any problems!!
2007-07-16 04:50:19 · answer #1 · answered by Princess*J* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just hope he didn't get "converted" and turned into some kinda religious fanatic... and that he's planning to meet with you to tell you how terrible it is to be gay.
BUT... he probably just wants to see you for the same reasons you want to see him... at a hotel room, no less. I mean, why didn't he just stop by where you live if he just wanted to talk. NO... he wants more than conversation... better stock-up on the condoms and lube.
Have a GREAT >> "visit" << with your ol' bud...
2007-07-16 15:52:11 · answer #2 · answered by J Andy A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him and relax and dont be or get in a hurry or rush things, its not good to be in such a rush! Things will happen! Ask him if he wants to join you in the shower, i mean its just like being in the locker room shower, its no different there except it will just be the 2 of you or come out of the shower naked with a towle drying off be be cool about it! being out of the shower is the same too!!
2007-07-16 12:17:05 · answer #3 · answered by mickey_112404 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you answered your own question. Why would this be any different from all the other times you've "played" together? You're just in a different location. It's not like you're strangers so you should be comfortable with eachother by now haha.
2007-07-16 11:50:20 · answer #4 · answered by Randy C 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself, talk about the good ole days with him. He probably has the same thoughts in his head as you do, if you are both open like that. Just make the move and go for it, if he's single... Good luck! :)
2007-07-16 11:56:21 · answer #5 · answered by Jyse 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just wait for a situation where he is in a towel or his underwear (or nude) and say to him "Seeing you like that reminds me of all the times we played around. Let's have some fun again". Or something to that effect.
2007-07-16 11:59:03 · answer #6 · answered by nycguy10002 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sure he is feeling the same way, just make the move , things will fall into place.
2007-07-16 12:52:10 · answer #7 · answered by kanei 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drink a few beers and relax a little bit, it will happen, trust me!! Play safe and have fun!!
2007-07-20 09:12:12 · answer #8 · answered by ziggy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be your self and dont try to rush into it or anything..... I hope you have fun =) Good Luck =)
2007-07-16 11:54:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him drunk.
2007-07-16 11:48:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 6⤋