....I'm starting to organise my stag do but have already found a problem. I have a few different set's of friends that I do different things with. The problem is they don't all get on and a few of them even had a fight last week. Obviously I don't want this kind of thing happening on my stag do so what do I do?
2007-07-16 04:28:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Explain to your friends that this is YOUR day and they are there to help YOU celebrate. Tell them that you understand they have differences, but, you would appreciate it if they would get along- ignore one another if necessary- because they are all important to you, and, you want them all there.
2007-07-16 04:32:23 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda h 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would either hold different stags or talk to all of my friends about my concern. I've been in this situation before and I'm always straight up: If you can't come to my house and get along with everyone, don't bother coming. If these people are your friends, they will make an effort because they care about you.
2007-07-16 11:32:44 · answer #2 · answered by legi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have separate get togethers so you can party with all your friends and avoid the drama of having them all together in one place, or choose to eliminate those that fight from the 1 stag party you have...
Personally, I'd have multiple parties so I could spend time with all my friends, if they were ones I was really close with. âº
2007-07-16 11:33:03 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get friends who are more intelligent than someone who uses his fists to win an argument?!
There is NO WAY you can have them all there and not expect a punch up - alcohol is the cause.
Why don't you arrange an outward bound day, army day or track day which doesn't involve a booze up and where these guys can all channel their aggression in a worthwhile way. Do something that is hard work and knackers them out physically so they are too exhausted to fight with each other.
2007-07-16 11:38:08 · answer #4 · answered by Saucy B 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe have two stag do's that way you keep them apart.
Having said that there is still your wedding. Have a tactful word with them all and say you cant have arguing or fighting at your wedding.
2007-07-16 11:32:49 · answer #5 · answered by laplandfan 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well all you can do is hope that they get on just for one night while you have your stag do...if they cannot get on then leave them to fight it out with each other, and if they are real friends then they won't spoil it for you....
2007-07-16 13:36:13 · answer #6 · answered by Dazzlebox 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not everyone is going to like eachother so i'd try wot the 1st guy said and have 2 stags!!!
2007-07-16 11:33:56 · answer #7 · answered by auto head 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ur stag do so if they are all your friends they should just get along for your sake whats one night for friendship? well with the wedding two jus tell them your taughts they might suprise you
2007-07-16 13:57:44 · answer #8 · answered by Evonne M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe have two seperate stag do's! Everyones a winner that way!
2007-07-16 11:31:26 · answer #9 · answered by Carrie Bradshaw wannabe 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Rather then going all out on one night perhaps you could have a few different night that cost less but it means you would be able to have a (special night) with all your friends, I done this and so did my partner, we are getting married so and had the same problem
2007-07-16 13:49:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋