she takes ur boyfriend knowing tht u still have feelings for him nd she doesnt even like him, she just doesnt want u to have him nd she is cheating on him anyway so would you still be friends with her if she has begged for forgiveness or stand tall nd never forgive her?
2007-07-16 04:00:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If she had shown to be an unfaithful friend, I would certainly question her wanting to reconnect with you. If you think she has changed (for starters, dumping your ex), then slowly let her back in, explain how she hurt you, and in time, you'll see if she was being totally honest about wanting forgiveness or not.
2007-07-16 04:08:24 · answer #1 · answered by Phoenixsong 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see, she takes your boyfriend. Doesn't care about your feelings. Takes him because she doesn't want you to have a boyfriend. Cheats on the boyfriend. I can't imagine having her for a friend. I don't think she is capable of being a true friend. She is a very selfish and hurtful person. I would not want to know her. If she begs forgiveness, I don't think I could believe her sincerity because what she does is very damaging and she is probably quite capable of acting that way again (and again). If I stayed friends with her because of circumstances (such as seeing her every day at school or work), it would be only on the surface. I don't think I would trust her again. I would keep my business from her, and I would not let her know anything about if I had another bf. I would look hard for some new friends.
2007-07-16 04:12:16 · answer #2 · answered by Annie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If one of my friends has proven herself untrustworthy, I will usually stay friends with her but keep her at bay and just remember what kind of things I can and cannot confide in her. Maybe she is just a drinking buddy.
But if a friend would have done something more hurtful like take someone she knows you have feelings for, then there is no reason to keep someone like that in your life. You'd probably be eliminating a lot of drama by cutting her out. If she has no regards for your feelings, and it wasn't a simple mistake but a deliberate hurtful one, I would stay away form her.
2007-07-16 04:05:51 · answer #3 · answered by P.Y.T.23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck No! If she doesn't respect you enough to not steal your boyfriend than she is not a friend and you should let youor boyfriend know that she is cheating on him. So his heart won't be as heart broken as it would if he found out that you knew but didn't tell him trust me i was cheated on two. I hope this helps.
2007-07-16 04:08:13 · answer #4 · answered by hi whats up? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you would have to forgive her eventually, but i wouldn't stay friends with her. if she was truly your best friend, then she wouldn't have done this to you. truly good friends are also good people at heart; if she is doing these types of things to you then she also doesn't sound like a very good person to me. from what i've heard, she was jealous of you so she took your boyfriend, and did this to show you that she can have whatever you can.
good luck!
2007-07-16 04:10:04 · answer #5 · answered by esso_crazy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would question if this person is really your best friend. She sounds toxic and not worth investing your time and effort in. If I were you I would stay away from her, and find a person who will love and respect you, and not try to hurt you on purpose.
2007-07-16 04:05:19 · answer #6 · answered by ytra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no plz evrybody asked for forgiveness sumtimes dey dont even mean it!u shud telll her ''okay lets see how can forgive hmm:
1.u stoled my bf dat i hav feelings 4!
2.u dont evn hav feelings 4 him
nd 3.ur cheating on him soo y shud i even forgive u!
2007-07-16 04:06:30 · answer #7 · answered by --»vann<3♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stand tall and neva go back cuz if do she might juss do tha same thing to u again and plus u dont need negative people in ur life lik that..think about ur future
2007-07-16 04:11:06 · answer #8 · answered by disfunctional -with pride 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, everything'd be cool. Never forgive?? That would just be mean!
2007-07-16 04:18:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my best friend of 12 years took me for a fool she used my children to get at me and i put a stop to it instantley i havnt spoken to her in months and im not loosing any sleep over it ,lifes too short to let people treat you like a fool tell her to go to hell and get on with your life !!!
2007-07-16 04:24:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋