my x-wife will not allow me see her because we are divoced because she had sex with another man and got pregnant.she said that she does want my daughter knowing me.it is best that she dont know me at .is this normal.
2007-07-16 03:33:33 · 8 answers · asked by Christopher C 1 in Health ➔ Alternative Medicine
no It maybe your last chance to get to know her what a cow she is go to court anything you have your rights how dare her take that away from you and your daughter that bitc.............
2007-07-16 03:43:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This just really depends on how your visiting will affect the child. My guess is that she might really need you right now, but that is only if she knows you. You don't want to upset her, but you should be able to see her, especially if she's not going to make it. The best answer I can give you right now, is to PRAY. Don't you stop praying until God answers. I will pray for you and your baby girl too. Your story sounds very normal, but that doesn't make it right, or OK. Lots of people try to pretend that certain things in their lives never happened. If your ex is telling your baby that someone else is her father, it is probably because she realizes that she messed up and wants to keep it a secret. By telling the truth, she'd be admitting that she slept with someone else. If you are the biological father, then you have rights. Seek legal advice. If this is a child that you have cared for since birth and she's not your biological child, you might still have a few rights. I'm not sure exactly what you meant. Either way, I would seek legal help. I hope this helps and I'll be praying for you.
2007-07-16 03:53:00 · answer #2 · answered by loves2shop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the only solorose. however stressful this is for you, the person who matters the most in all of this is your child. And I have complete empathy with you as I also have a very sick daughter who is probably not going to make it. Her health deteriorated quite badly during this past month and it was suggested to me by medical staff that it might be in order for my ex husband to be contacted. We live apart and have very little contact owing to his violent nature.
Having him around was not helpful as he has not played a part in her life at all and I am quite traumatised being around him. However I did what I thought was best, and fair for my daughter. And I saw a counsellor to help me deal with whatever was going on throughout the time he was here. One of the things she said to me was that since I had sole care of the children it was of the utmost importance that I felt able to cope, emotionally and physically, that if I was not feeling on top of the situation the framework of my family would collapse and that was not beneficial to my children.
I don't think now is a good time to begin legal action, whatever your feelings are towards your ex wife, you must try to understand that she is also coming to terms with a childs illness and that she is with that child 24/7. The courts would not want to do anything at the moment to undermine her emotionally and put your child further at risk.
My only advice would be to try and sit down together, and in a calm and rational way try to reach some sort of agreement about your involvement. No point scoring, no accusations, just put forward how you feel and that you need to also be a part of the child's life while you are able. I would imagine your ex wife is feeling quite emotional and afraid at the moment, and needs to be treated with sensitivity and consideration.
It's a difficult time for you all, and I hope for the very best for you
2007-07-16 21:24:21 · answer #3 · answered by Eden* 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These are 2 separate issues. The glioma can be treated follow the link. For not seeing your daughter, get a lawyer. if you are the father be a father in her time of need. You and your ex need to put your differences aside. Your child needs you now.
2007-07-16 03:39:02 · answer #4 · answered by Monte T 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would feel that a poor dying little girl has a right to meet her real father. Do whatever you have to do legally to meet her, say you love her, and enjoy what time you can, even if it's only one time it could mean a lot to her. Hopefully there is a cure - make sure her Mom is doing whatever necessary to help her get better! If not take her away legally!
2007-07-16 07:35:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have every right to see your child and if it is important to you, you should try to talk to your ex wife. If talking to her doesnt work take her to court for visitation rights.
2007-07-16 03:37:04 · answer #6 · answered by BeachBABE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is apparently normal for mom. She is in the situation with a little girl that is dying. You need to honor her judgement of what is best for your daughter at this point. That poor little girl doesn't need anymore complications in her short little life than is absolutely necessary.
2007-07-16 03:38:13 · answer #7 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
you have the right to see your daughter....take her to court!!!!!!!!!
2007-07-16 03:36:59 · answer #8 · answered by diggerm82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋