im in love with somebody,who is already engage with somebody else and also he loves me alot as a best friend.i cant help it...love happens unknowingly...now i dont wanna stay with him,but he doesnot wnat to leave me....totaly confused....cant even say him that i cant leave without him at all.
2007-07-16 03:08:44 · 9 answers · asked by nups 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
leave him alone
if he wanted to be with you,
he would break off the engagement,
obviosly she comes first.
2007-07-16 03:13:37 · answer #1 · answered by vicki d 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all love or whatever can happen anytime.Attraction has no boundaries. But as 'self' you have to have your options well chalked out and set boundaries.Calm down the vibrations of attraction. What do you do when you lose balance you try to come back to normal position. If you don't what happens....I need not explain. So try all methods of reason practical as well as emotional to come back to senses. think rationally about all characters involved. I am just confused what does this sentence mean 'love happens unknowingly...now i don't wanna stay with him,but he doesnot want to leave me....' Why doesnot want to leave you. is it friendship or something else. Personally I feel there is no confusion. Just leave and stay away.Don't even have to say verbally. you may feel upset for a week or so. gradually you will feel better. time is the healer. this is not for you at the moment. if at later date really later date.............................then you may rethink. Hon your life is very precious take care of it.
2007-07-16 03:24:38 · answer #2 · answered by KAAL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing in this world happens unknowingly. Its just an excuse we use coz we dont hv a strong will power. Love never happens unknowingly, The guy looks good & its just an attraction.....so think abt others & not only abt urself & plzzz leave the guy alone he is not urs anymore.
2007-07-16 04:27:04 · answer #3 · answered by simple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just approach her n inform her inspite of her being engaged to some other person u love her very much, n whenver she needs a true friend u will always be there for her.
that is true love n then just wait, she will always think of u in her requirement, n will be close to u than her fiance.
wat more u want
2007-07-19 23:39:06 · answer #4 · answered by khadija k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to break off the engagement and be with you. If he says no, then you leave him and go find someone else.
2007-07-16 03:27:22 · answer #5 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is true fact that u r in love.please chech that the person whom u love is ready to do anything 4u in circumstances. check ur & his love towards each other firest, keep the whole world & worries aside. give a chance to yourself & ur beloved to express,explained & understand each other properly.
if u really don't want to stay with him either tell him bluently on his face & keep avoiding him like anything.
2007-07-16 03:17:34 · answer #6 · answered by jiya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know about plutonic love, more than friendship less than love? go ahead.
2007-07-19 20:04:43 · answer #7 · answered by JAWLA P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone
2007-07-16 03:25:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, please try to avoid him, he would understand in the due course of time
2007-07-16 06:01:36 · answer #9 · answered by Rana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋