i've failed in life,lonely and suicidal...how could i ever smile again?

Answer 1

its ok God will forgive you. pray to him and ask for forgiveness. he will always forgive you and be there for you no matter what.

Answer 2

What do you think you have failed in? Being lonely sucks, I feel that too sometimes. Being suicidal is a very serious matter.

With the things in your life that you feel you have failed in, I think it would be wise to talk about them. Getting therapy I think is a good idea, but if you are too down and out to go there, call a 24 hr. crisis line, sometimes they can help by listening.

Remember dear that suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. And remember this....failure if looked at right, can be used as a "steping stone" closer to sucess. If you tried at some things and "failed" then be wise dear and use those "failures" if you will as "lessons learned" . So that way you can be constructive with those "failiures" and use them to work for you.

Okay, so you've failed at some things, we all have. Of course, some more than others. But the real deal here is Your Perspective. No you can't always fix what was already done, but you can learn from your mistakes and try again. I know it may be hard for you...but keep trying dear and don't give up.

Maybe you are lonley, and no one should ever feel that way..even though I do sometimes too. Please know that your life is very important,....it is to me. You are special and you DO matter. You may have made some "unwise" choices in life, but you are Not a failure. You can turn this around!

Know that you are loved and your life here on earth is important. I would like to be a friend to you. Take good care and God Bless.

Answer 3

You are not alone, many people have been down that road and most have learned to smile again. Right now you don't think that you ever be like you used to be, that nothing matters, and that no one would miss you or care if you were gone. Well that is the problem that needs to be addressed.
Right now, you are having a problem seeing things in a clear way, thinking in a clear way, and the worst thing about it, n o matter how you may have tried in the past to think right, or make things better, you might have had absolutely no way to make that happen, which put you further down your lonely road.
You need to get help from a doctor, right away. The way you are thinking and feeling might be because of something very simple, that you and your doctor can figure out and your doctor can and will help.
I have been down that same road that you are on right now, and it does get better, it will take some time, but it does happen. I feel like my old self again, I have interests back, feelings back, clear thinking back, and things just keep getting better because I choose to make it that way.
Please, go talk to your doctor and get help, don't waste any more of your time thinking this way. I only wish I would have gone sooner to my doctor, because I missed out on a large chunk of life that I will never get back.
Keep your head up and go see your doctor.

Answer 4

You haven't failed at life. Your life goes on and you have many chances at succeeding in you own right. While anti depressants can help you have to find the happiness within yourself, find projects that keep you happy and entertained. This all sounds like yackety smackety blah blah but it's true.

The most important thing is that you don't go forward alone. Find a friend to talk to or maybe a therapist. Venting always helps when you have someone that understands. If you are feeling suicidal call someone right now. Let them help you through this shady feeling.

I hope you feel better real soon.

Answer 5

get up and do something about it NOW ! TODAY ! There's a lot of people out there that live their lives to help others . But, you gotta' make a move ! Good Luck ! I have a feeling by the end of the day, you will be happy. Go outside. Get off the computer, and see what's happening ! (It sounds like you need to talk to someone you trust. Ask them to at least point you in the right direction.) I gave you a star because you are an important person to this planet. It is a miracle that any of us are here in the first place. We have free will to make our own choices.......and you can choose to be happy right now !

Answer 6

I don't know enough of your situation to answer, don't know why you think you've failed in life, but you're alive enough to type a question so you can't be failing that badly at life. You just need a new set of eyes to look at your problem it's the lonliness that's not offering you a close friend to find another way of looking at things, try explaining more and doing another question.

I was once down too and like you've got - religious people came along asking me to do this and that to realise god etc... looking back those parasites make me sick...

oh and if you need a good laugh try Eddie Izzard that man nearly killed me once by asphxysiation he's so funny. if he can't put a smile on your face draw one on cos if you're immune to Eddie - there's no other way

Answer 7

I even have 2 for saddest song, can not decide for this is better:- Eric Clapton - Tears in Heaven (because of the challenge count) Johnny money - harm (strikes like a dagger to the guts with the emotion) I even have 3 which on no account fails to place a grin on my face:- Neil Diamond - candy Caroline (Makes you shout out the refrain each and every time) Dave Matthews (distinctly with Tim Reynolds) - Crash into me (between the main beautiful songs ever written. fantastically underrated) Love - on my own returned Or (proper opener to a suitable album)

Answer 8

Just keep interacting withother people on line & at home. In time your life will get better! I'm 40, divorced, & basically having to start all over again, but i wouldn't know what it feels like to be suicidal. I've always been a fighter & a surviver. I want to live!! I hope you do too!!!!

Answer 9

I was suicidal for most of my life and all of my adult life until last fall. I stopped pretending I could control my life and got mental health. Been thru Hell like people pray they never have to go thru. Now, I LOVE my life and even the a--holes who try to drag me down into the messes they get themselves into. I stopped trying to save them from their own messes and just show them how to live happily. I lol all the time with the new friends who are good for me and ignore others who are bad for me. It is possible. Don't quit before YOUR miracle happens.

Answer 10

I'm sorry you're feeling bad. Just so you know, you aren't alone in feeling this way. I do too, most of the time. There are many online self-help groups for depression and/or anxiety. Yahoo Groups has a lot of them. I know that doesn't replace real contact with people, but it helps you to not feel so alone. Seeing a psychotherpist would help, too. Medication is also helpful for some people. I hope things start looking up for you soon.

Answer 11

i think that you must try to forget the past,no matter what hap pend. i don`t think that a failure can destroy our life. be logic and start doing things you always wanted to do but you never had the chance. read books, travel, and try to delete your bad memories. everyone failed once. have some fun,make new friends,enjoy your life and don`t be pessimist.everything can change,only if we really want to change it!try to learn through your mistakes and make a new beginning!!