why is guys all interested in you in the wooing process and after they get you, few months or a year after, down the road, the enthusiasm to 'please' you dies down?
My guy used to be sooooo romantic and now, he's so comfortable with me that he doesn't make an effort to do the things he does before. For example, he would pick me up from work even though he's so tired. And now, when i ask him if he is going to meet me after work, he said, maybe next time. And we meet only in the weekend! Is that pathetic or what? And we don't live very far from each other. He knows i am okay with that, but it doesn't mean i am happy.
i know we women are hard to please. like what people say, 'treat your woman right, or else someone else will' when will u guys ever learn?
2007-07-16 01:31:44 · 11 answers · asked by NOTurBFF!! 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
it isn't true for all guys
2007-07-16 01:34:43 · answer #1 · answered by ~LOZ~ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I heard this before, I think it's because, some guys love the chase, they love chasing after you. So when they have you, it's like what now? The chase is over.
Don't know what you have until it's gone.
2007-07-16 08:36:49 · answer #2 · answered by Wings619 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
way 2 go,girl!!u r absolutely right!boys just want us 2 fall 4 them...and after tat they dont care much...dey think its a gr8 accomplishment 2 hav a gf...who loves u..
2007-07-16 08:37:05 · answer #3 · answered by ka2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its the conquor syndrome and women get it too after they get the prize they say now im good and dont have to keep it up and its like a trophy they put on a shelf and say see look what i got but never keep it clean and it gets dusty
2007-07-16 08:36:07 · answer #4 · answered by prince charming 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question. "He's so comfortable." And by the way, women are not hard to please. They want what any human being wants, and that is to be loved. Sounds like you're not feeling loved.
2007-07-16 08:39:01 · answer #5 · answered by ocean zebra 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a two lane street baby.
2007-07-16 08:39:19 · answer #6 · answered by ninebadthings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what can i say? it's always the best foot forward! but hey not all guys are like that!
2007-07-16 08:36:12 · answer #7 · answered by Mek of the MACHINE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you. Maybe you should talk to your boyfriend about it so he knows how you feel.
2007-07-16 08:38:57 · answer #8 · answered by Meeya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i know what you mean, it is part of the "process", they don't have to try so hard now that they got ya, but they should be tryin harder to keep ya!!
2007-07-16 08:35:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all "guys" won't b the same... and for that matter not "women" r the same either..
2007-07-16 08:36:12 · answer #10 · answered by tonal syndrome 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋