how i can build confidence in myself?
2007-07-15 23:52:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
By realizing that everyone else... Is just a person... Sit at the mall and look at all of the interactions taking place. They are doing nothing different than you. You can either except that you are an individual and deserves to be treated as such. Or you can worry about what everyone else thinks or does. Insecurity is one of the more unattractive features of people... More guys get dumped because they are Insecure than those that may have unflattering features. And people who are insecure Have tendency's to be clingy and Indecisive. Nothing I can say will make you feel secure.. That is something that you have to come to terms with yourself. Two things need to happen... You have to believe in yourself... and secondly you should not put so much stock into what other people think....
2007-07-16 00:02:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy or go to the library for tapes or books on building confidence.
In the meantime, make a list of all of your good qualitites. Now you know what is good about you. Then make a list of all of your bad qualities. Now you know what you have to improve on. Take one or two things at a time. Don't try to work on all of it at once. It is too hard, and you will probably end up quitting. The result will be a better person that you can be proud of.
2007-07-16 07:00:20 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First don't think of it if you feel a nervous and shy with your loved ones.Think of it you feel a confident or why just to enrolled a school with related the personality development,speech comprehension and an etiquette.Someday you can build a self confidence.
2007-07-16 07:32:58 · answer #3 · answered by Clarisse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be more social active,enroll in some discusion group,go to trips,concentrate on your positive feachers and do what you are good at,find more friends who have similar to your point of view,you can make a list of the things that frightens you and start doing them,then you will see the only thing against you is your scariness,you just have to overcome it.take for example babyes- they have no fears (a baby will go to the fireplace no matter that it can be harmful for it)we are building our own fears as we live.don't pay attention to this.as for people around it's even less worthy bothering .what more than you are they so their appinion is more important than yours?if you pretent that you are self-confident they will believe it(people see only what you show them) and when you talk always have an eye contact!!
2007-07-16 07:05:53 · answer #4 · answered by knight900 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read some books on building your self esteem, do things for yourself and others that make you feel good about you. You don't say what the issues are. So it's hard for me to give you any more ideas. Except, maybe counseling. GL
2007-07-16 07:00:04 · answer #5 · answered by Suzie Q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋